he brought me a Lindt chocolate in and saw how i smiled, after smoking a few joints i got the munchies and asked him if i could have another one? he said no and went on at me for being "ungrateful" and that why did i always have to have more?
He's known from day one that chocolate is one of my favourite things in the world, and that i would've done exactly the same thing one day ago, 1 month ago or even 1 year ago! Why would he let it bother him so much? (incidentally i went and got the chocolate myself when he wouldn't get it for me - as i'm using crutches at the moment for my broken foot!)
The worst thing is he thinks he was fair to call me ungrateful when i'm really not. i told him it's not even worth arguing about a f***ing piece of chocolate but he still wouldn't drop the subject!
Is he being petty or what?
2006-10-20 03:34:23 · 23 answers · asked by Miss Tickle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you're both being petty. just drop it already.
2006-10-20 03:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is what drugs are good for!!! I left a boyfriend over drugs and drinking as well. You both are letting the drugs control your life!! Lay off the drugs and see if you both change your attitude toward each other. Drugs and booze have caused more problems between couples than you or anyone can imagine.
See if you had not been smoking the pot, you wouldn't have gotten the munchies and then you wouldn't have want more chocolate and then the fight wouldn't have happened.
This whole thing is petty and it is over drugs not the chocolate.
2006-10-20 03:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It feels like as much as you look after him, your lives are completely diverse. he's 40 with a marriage in the back of him, a baby and specific an standard profession. you're merely beginning your life out. you have ideals and values of what you prefer in a dating considering you're 21. He has a very diverse outlook on relationships than you do via fact he has 19 years greater adventure. What you prefer he won't be waiting to supply you. and that i'm valuable you recognize this, yet bringing his ex-spouse up in a controversy is merely propose and immature - you owe him an apology. you may desire to make certain if that's what you prefer - youngsters and accountability are not going away. Or in case you prefer somebody closer to your age that has a similar outlook as you.
2016-11-24 19:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact he was stoned doesn't help. But I really don't see how someone can be seen as "ungrateful" just cos they want another piece of chocolate! Surely you were showing how appreciative you were of the present he brought you and how much you liked it! Very odd. Can't understand his logic there...bit of a control freak too if you ask me - it it happens again tell him he can stick a piece of chocolate where the sun don't shine.
2006-10-20 03:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf is being petty. Would recommend he cuts back on the Pepe (Pepe le Pew = Skunk, like it? Use it) Weed can make you do crazy things and, speaking from experience, bring your own munchies next time. That way, you can avoid these arguements in the future, or, you can do the same back to him when he wants some of yours ;o)
2006-10-20 04:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by James M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men need to realise that chocolate is THE most important thing in the world to women!
I bet he would expect to be waited on (with MORE than just chocolates) if the situation were the other way round!
2006-10-20 03:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all you need to lay off the pot, Their is no reason for any one to argue over a chocolate? You both need to stop sweating the small stuff. This is very patty!
2006-10-20 03:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he is being petty! But is there something bothering him and its coming out in petty arguments? Is he happy with you smoking pot? It needs to be cleared up because it will fester and then progress into something big!
2006-10-20 04:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Extremely! What did he want the chocolate for himself? Sounds to me like he either needs to grow up or get over it.
2006-10-20 03:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by katiebillue 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he PMS-ing?? hahahahaha leave him alone and let him cool down first.. Then he might wanna sit down n tink of watever he has said to u..... then he will realise that he is juz acting like a kid! it's really a small issue n not worth to fight over for long... he'll get over it and so must u...
2006-10-20 03:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've both been smoking a bit too much and are getting paranoid.
2006-10-20 03:37:06 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋