i am alone, thinking about negetive things?what can i do??
2006-10-20 03:17:22 · 19 answers · asked by martarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
think about some positive ones instead, just rest, watch a movie or tv, music, or if you are up for it write down everything that is bothering you, start with the first one, take tiny steps toward resolving or accepting it, then the next one, some people go to confession for that, others find a therapist helpful (i do). Don't worry about how long it takes to get rid of the negative thoughts, Just keep busy thinking about them, instead of dwelling on what you think was or might be bad.
2006-10-20 03:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not really alone, because many people have or had the same problem. Life goes sort of in cirles, or turns. One year is terrible, all bad things happen. Then next year is really good. Try to make some friends, and think positivily.
Most people had moments like you are having now, so its normal. And it's normal to feel lonely and like noone really understands.
Anyway, suicide is not a good idea. It is the worst sin, and besides you don't know what happens after death. If you think life is bad, the death might be even worse.
So, try to have positive attidude, and don't think about anything sad. Instead, imagine your life in the future being happy and colourful.
2006-10-20 03:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mella 87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to a psychologist about the feelings you are having. It is always go to talk to some total stranger because they don't know you so there won't be a lot of judgement. If you are thinking about hurting yourself, remeber taking your own life is the ultimate sin and there is no coming back from hell. There is nothing that bad going on in your life that is that bad remember everyone has issues and problems if you can't handle them alone ask someone for help. Don't ever be too proud to ask for help because there is always someone worse off then you. Do you think homeless people want to kill themselves? Some of them may but for the most part you see the homeless trying to provide a way be asking others for help.
2006-10-20 03:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm alone too, and too much thinking - especially negative, can really freak you out. Pick up a book, watch TV, go for a walk - anything where your mind is somewhere else. Get a journal and write only positive thoughts in it - no negative ones. I've done that and it works. Just keep busy, because activity helps.
Don't think about dying - it won't help - you can only change your life, so enjoy it now. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-20 03:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing somethig now ,talking to other people.Kept on talking and hold on to the positive things and thow away the negetive things.
2006-10-20 03:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by ujudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that question is different for many! Realize yours is a temporary situation and work to change it! Turn to God! Try to develop positive thoughts. Find things to do with your spare time!
2006-10-20 03:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, suicide is not the answer to anything....if you die, someone (if even you think they wont) will care and it will hurt them really bad..but on with you, um you really dont want to do that, your future could hold so much for you and youd never be able to experience the things that life holds for you, prove your a strong person and pull out of this....think of positive things and look forward to somethin good that could happen
2006-10-20 04:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go call a friend, get up and go hang out with your friends, read a book, watch some television, go for a walk or a bike ride, why sit around alone and think about negative thoughts?
2006-10-20 03:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't think about negative things and shouldn't be surrounded by negative people. If you are one of those you should stop now, everyone no that someday we will die, however we shouldn't think about that and live and enjoy life to the fullest.
2006-10-20 03:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably suffering from "Clinical Depression" like millions of other people.
If you have a doctor, see him/her and tell him that you are dealing with negative thoughts constantly. He will probably prescribe anti-depression medications for you. Once properly medicated, you will begin to feel normal again, losing your sadness and despair.
Good luck
2006-10-20 03:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋