How to be satisfied with what we have. How to achieve perfect peace in life?
I know well that God will not give everything to everyone. I lost the true love in my life? Some times i feel like iam having the worst situation. I want to mend myself such that i can face any situations in this world with a big smile. Is it possible?
If some one can inspire me iam really grateful to them.
2006-10-20 02:46:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, loosing someone you love is never easy especially when it's the love of you life, I wish i could give you the perfect words to inspire you but I can't.
In life there are many things that happen, many experiences that we have to go through and lots of lessons that we learn, some are good and they make us feel so happy, like falling in love or making someone's day special. But there are those experiences that leave us wondering how do you we go on, why is this happening to me, how can i be happy and smile when everything is hurting so much and this is the worst situation ever.
But like we embrace the good feelings like falling inlove and achieving our goals and we should embrace the tough times in the same manner, for it's our experience and we meant to go through it for a reason.
If you can't smile today it's okay, the fact that you want to simple means that in time you will. Don't be so hard on yourself. They say time heals all wounds well, i personally think that time makes us stronger and the wounds are still there and still as deep but we are able to deal with them.
That is important to deal with your problems, to able to experience the pain and go through it, embrace it. Learn to forgive and forget, never forget the lesson but forget the situation. That is how you can truly heal and move fwd.
All this takes time. So give yourself time :-).
This may not be the inspiring words you expected but it's my experience and my life and i hope in someway if anything it lets you know that you not alone. So smile it gets better and you will find your peace within:-).
2006-10-20 03:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by angel_gp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHUT THE COMPUTER OFF for starters, why do you think they call it artificial intelligence. Take a walk outside and see the world close up and breathe in some fresh air. You need to stimulate your physical self and activate your being on that level. See nature of things an how it is all arranged and how different people experience their journey on this planet. Look at the possibility of helping someone do something they are having a problem with, they will be grateful and maybe put into perspective what you can't see by yourself. Volunteer at a homeless shelter or a nursing home, appreciate your health and living situation and keep an open mind and heart. Life isn't fair and the only thing that is truly personal, is the way we see ourselves and we CAN create that in our own mind. Take care and good luck.
2006-10-20 03:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Outside the box 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I gave up believeing in god a long time ago. But I respect that you still do. Love is a wonderful and terrible thing all at the same time. I too have a temultuous heart right now, and it is torn between duty and desire. If you are in pain from love or the loss of it, let the pain remind you that you are alive. And be glad that you are not stagnate and without the real experiences that life has. Some people never find love, and and are dead inside, and don't even know it. Use your pain to create art, music, poetry. It is yours to do with as your mind commands. Take control of it and direct it into something good. Then, be open to find the next source of love that will no doubt find you in the future.Smile, it helps.
2006-10-20 03:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my 13 month old son a little over a month ago so I know what it is like to feel like you have lost your true love, you feel that nothing ever goes your way. As difficult as it may be you have to just hold on to your faith in God. I look at my situation as a test. I feel like God could be testing my Faith in him. If you truly believe then ask God for strength and guidance and understanding. I admit it is so hard to be at peace when you feel all alone but I have been standing my ground and praying day in and day out. It is always good to have someone you can talk to by your side. Talking about your feelings and grieving over the lost of your loved one is the best way to be at peace. Keep your head held high. No one expects you to face the world with a smile every single day. Just be yourself and the peace will find you.
2006-10-20 04:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appreciate what u have now for it will never last forever...
do what u think is right and forget all the past..
live happily..think positively..
u can never achieve perfect peace if u commit a sin as the peace lies within ur heart and commiting a sin will only ruin it..
love is unconditional, it leaves u when its the time and if u make the effort to take good care of it, it will stay with u forever for eternity..find a new partner and treat her as if she's the only one u have..
and yes it is possible to face any situations with a big smile..the power of positive thinking will help you all the time..this is one of the greatest gifts that us humans have..when u have any problems, do not be frustrated, think carefully and find a way to solve it..it is not the end of the world nor ur life..there's always solutions to every problem..it all depends on ur willingness to solve it or let it affect n hunt u for the rest of ur life..
and again, think positively..u will discover lots of things unexpected..
thats all i can say..i hope it helps..good luck in ur endeavours
2006-10-20 03:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, U lost the true love of your life and you feel bad about that? U are so lucky to fall in love, he/she may be not worth you.U are a gem...Always believe that. u will find people who leave you alone at any point of time, back stab you,cheat you.
Don't you think you are above and better than them.
Did he/she ever turn back and think that they lost you? If they didn't why are you wasting your time for such people? If you were also there true love he/she will come back to you.
For some one you may be the world.
2006-10-20 02:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by ithunderhyderabad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think when things are bad then could always be worse. Find something worthwhile to do with ur time. Write a book, about what ur feeling. I always feel better after I write out everything. Take things day by day...think about ur true love that you lost and what they would want for you. Be thankful to have shared that love with them. Some people can't figure out even how to love. Last of all keep them alive in ur heart! I wish you well...
2006-10-20 03:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put all your focus that you had on your true love in God. Connect with God. Get personal with Him. He will comfort you and give you the peace to smile. God is perfect peace but you have to take all of your problems and worries to Him. I have been through the same thing. Just take it one day at a time. Things will come around.
2006-10-20 02:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 Corinthians 10:13 in the NIV tells us, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 in the NKJV reads, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” This Scripture teaches us a powerful principle. God will not allow anything to come into our lives that we are not capable of withstanding.
I truly believe that God only gives us what we can handle. It's amazing how much Love God has for us. He trusts us more than we trust ourselves. I almost feel empowered when reading the above verse. I feel that God has alot of faith in my abilities. He knows me and knows how I will react. He knows we are not perfect and continues to walk with us especially during the bad times. Just remember when times are tough, that God will only give you what you can handle. Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-10-20 03:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, welcome to my world. I wish there was something sometimes that we could do to make EVERYTHING better. Like say some magic word, or press some 'easy' button... *sigh*. Just remember that time ALWAYS changes everything. As to how? it's kind of up to us/you, you know? You have to make the decision to make certain changes, or see things differently. I spent most of last night and this morning crying because of issues I'm having to deal with in my life right now, but deep inside of me, I'm aware of the fact that if I want things different, I have to do things different. It won't be easy or pretty all the time, but one day, you'll look back and feel like you did 'something' right. I'm sorry if I'm rambling. Just try to keep your head up, know it's ok to be mad, know it's ok to cry, but know when it's time to make a move. Hey, feel free to email me... I'll be glad to reply and attempt to help as best I can. Maybe we can help each other stop crying? (well, that's assuming you're crying). Feel better ok? Things WILL get better soon.
2006-10-20 02:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by monie0078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋