I went to my best friends beach house on the holidays and we were having heeps of fun and it was all good but when we got back to school she wasnt talking to me and whenever i tried to talk to he she would ignore me.. i didnt do anything to her and i dont know why this is happening. I called her the other night and asked her about why she was being like this and she said she wasnt angry and stuff and my other friend said that she asked her about it and she said everything was fine. She isnt sitting with our group anymore but she told me we were still going to be friends but now whenever i try to talk to her she ignores me and she doesnt include me in anything
2006-10-20 02:27:28 · 9 answers · asked by annie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I was in middle school and high school I had a best friend that did the same thing to me, for no reason. Eventually we started talking and hanging out again, but it wasn't the same. I realized she wasn't a very good friend. Anyone that treats you like that for no reason isn't a good friend, or maybe she's going through something and doesn't want to hang out or talk about it. Give her another chance if she keeps acting that way move on. Hope it works out.
2006-10-20 02:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you are over acting or this person is finding new intrests
you can still be friends just maybe not as close its great to explore and find and make new friends the more you have the better YOU CAN"T BE IGNORED BY THEM ALL AT THE SAME TIME JUST REMEMBER THOSE THAT ARE THERE FOR YOU
SOMETIMES WE DONT SEE THEM AS FOR WHOM THEY REALLY ARE THE TRUE
Best Friends HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 02:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says everything is fine believe her, just let her know you're her friend and you will always be there for her no matter what. Also, let her know whenever she's ready to talk you'll listen. Let her know that ya'll have been through so much together and you don't want to lose your friendship
2006-10-20 03:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tony B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it must be really serious if she's alegdly ur best friend ! i mean a lot of people --while facing personal problems--- prefer to go through them on their own and don't include the others !!
call it an intimacy problem, but just give her time and don't push !! u'd otherwise wind up just making things worse !!
blessed be!
2006-10-20 02:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by xander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both women? Maybe something happen that she wasn't comfortable with or she may have feeling for you that she believe you may not be comfortable with. She may be gay or thing that you are. Sit down and talk to her, let her know you are feeling alienated and ask if you did something wrong.
2006-10-20 02:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, people change, she could just have another group of friends now. i wouldn't concern myself with it because if she is going to do this then she just might not care anymore.
2006-10-20 02:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just give her some time maby something happing to her but she will come around just let her know your her friend and that know matter what happing you will still talk to her
2006-10-20 02:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There evidently is a problem, you just don't know what it is! The problem may not be you!
2006-10-20 02:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** her
2006-10-20 02:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋