2006-10-20 02:26:17 · 14 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Not to be cheezy...but you have to let your heart decide that for you. If it feels right go for it! But hold out until it feels right!!! You can't rush those perfect feelings...
2006-10-20 06:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answer about "at least the third date." And there are a lot of factors that go into that, too. Have you had a lot of time talking during your dates, and in between them?
Another answer mentions that the woman chooses, and in a sense, this is true. You're more likely to get chosen if you let her know from the beginning that you find her attractive. (Hint: Say something. Don't just make a pass.) IMPORTANT: Don't compliment her just to hear a compliment. This will backfire! Compliment her without expecting anything back. It makes a difference, trust me.
You're also more likely to be chosen if you want to be with her, and not just want to be with someone. And a lot of women can tell the difference. So take the time to figure out if this is a woman you'd like to be in a long-term relationship with.
One last tip: Touch her during times when you don't hope to have sex. Hold her hand, give her a hug, put your arm around her, etc. Not in a pushy way, but to express affection. If you only touch her when you want to have sex, she may figure out that you're not really that in to her, you just want to have sex with someone. I hope you find someone to be happy with--good luck!
2006-10-20 09:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Yogini108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i used to date, depending on the gentlemen, it would be at least the third date. It takes at least two dates, and i mean good dates to really get to know the person. In this day and age, sexual diseases are very common. So if the man keeps trying on the first date, he trys with every girl. He would have a great chance of having AIDS or something. Its not worth dying for get to have sex on the first date.
God Bless you
Edna
2006-10-20 09:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by edna_romano_1943 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I arounsed when I meet her, or not yet?
Seriously, I don't know. Depends how old you are, etc. At this point in my life, if I were single, and someone I was connecting with well had sex with me right away, I'd consider it a plus. Yeah, she's probably been pretty uh ... active ... but I'd rather be in a long term commitment with someone with a high sex drive then a low one.
2006-10-20 12:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman, of course.
2006-10-20 09:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some words of advice: YOU don't make the decision, SHE does. All you can do is play along and drop hints. If she takes you up on the offer, fine. If she doesn't...well...
2006-10-20 09:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by forgottenprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 minutes after eating
2006-10-20 09:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by pottymouth2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on the people...if its you meeting me~don't wait..do it right away! many many times :)
2006-10-20 11:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well when the time is obviously right for both of you....dont be pushy and do'nt let her push you.
2006-10-20 09:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
27 minutes.
Seriously. at least three months
2006-10-20 09:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋