Need some help my mate is planning on losing his virginity to an escort, I have tried to stop him but he wont listen me. What can I say to him that will make him stop?
2006-10-20 02:20:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I guess it would make for a good story, that is the same as if the first car you ever drove was a rental car, and that would suck! it is pretty dirty. you could turn it into a challenge for him, make him feel bad for not trying harder.
2006-10-20 02:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to worry about your friend losing his virginity to an escort. Normally people who do this have a tendancy to regret losing their virginity in certain ways and it is best with a loving caring relationship? Does he feel inadequate when around his friends bragging about their sexual antics? or does he just feel that it is inappropriate to be on at a certain age. I'm 23 and still a virgin but i too get days where i'm happy i still got it and others where i feel i could hump anything right there and now. It's natural. Although there is the STD worry and if he does go ahead tell them to wear protection but sex that way is mechanical and cold not warm and loving like with a steady relationship.
2006-10-20 10:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean it depends there comes a certain point in every guys life when he wants to lose it he just cant deal with it anymore and thinks its a bad thing. Honestly I would talk to all the girl friends that he hasand tell them, one of them is bound to like him and would probably take the place of the escort if they knew the situation. Iam assuming he has girl friends and one does care about him of course and they have no idea this is going on. They could have a perfect opportunity to show how much they like him and there would be nothing wrong with that, it could even spark a relationship.
2006-10-20 02:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw him down tie him up and throw him in a bath full of ice water then explain to him why as one of his best friends and room mate you dont want him to do something so friggin stupid like that and he should wait for the right time...tell hes married.
guy above me is 23 and a virgin. Im turning 20 in 5 days and am to. Its not that all uncommen thats what todays sociaty dosent understand. 58% of kids who graduated high school last year were virgins. Its hard but hes doing the right thing waitng
shame on anyone who thinks other wise, throw him a box of condoms was the last thing he needed from you jerks.
2006-10-20 14:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by robertt223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if hes a young teenager - try to stop him.
If hes mid 20's+ dont stop him... he obviously needs some help.
Either way, after your first time, you tend to get a lot more self confidence, so no matter where he gets his first he will be a new man after. hopefully he wont need an escort after that ever again.
2006-10-20 02:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to help him? Buy a pack of condoms and show him you care. You can't stop him.
How old are you guys? It is illegal if you are under 18. The escort could end up in jail. Be careful.
Why your friend wants to do this? Because he does not have the 'balls' to ask a date of the same age to have sex? Half the fun is in convincing the girl to have sex with you. It is all in the preparation and leading upto it................. don't miss this beautiful opportunity.................
2006-10-20 02:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S.T.D`S
I hope you know what this stands for get a leaflet for him on them also let him know its Agusted the law? and tell him its so much better with some body who cares about you because you can share the experience more then once and you know that you are safe from S.T.D`S and you will be more close and have the best sex in a relationship.
2006-10-20 02:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by queen west 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is set on doing it, I don't think you'll be able to stop him. I've got a male friend who lost his virginity to an escort, and he's fine.
2006-10-20 02:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there is a very high chance his condom could break and he could end up with a serious std. Tell him to be patient the right woman will come along soon
2006-10-20 02:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that at some point a special woman would be so glad and happy to know that he waited for her. He will be glad and proud that he did. The "sex act" itself is nothing without a relationship behind it.
2006-10-20 02:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋