So I'm 25 weeks and my "drive" is ZERO! This is so not normal for me. My poor beautiful husband does very little complaining, which I'm thankful for. About all I can manage is a little hand action on him. Am I alone?
2006-10-20 02:05:56 · 17 answers · asked by SOM 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are not alone... dang those hormones!
2006-10-20 02:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by tampico 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are far from normal which is causing your decreased sex drive. Although most people tend to say they have this problem in the first trimester and are feeling much better by the second trimester there is no standard for normal or not. Talk to your doctor next time you visit. Until then be grateful you have such a wonderful, understanding husband.
2006-10-20 09:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are CRAZY right now! Don't feel bad that your "drive" seems non-existant. Every woman's body reacts differently to the hormones, and this is the way your body deals with it. Mine on the other hand, was quite the opposite until AFTER the baby was born. Then my "drive" drove off for awhile!! Heep being the good wife that sounds like you're being and things will work out soon!!
2006-10-20 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. You'll have some weeks with no drive, then some weeks you'll have Extreme drive. Don't fret this is a part of pregnancy, everything is unpredictable, I'm sure your hubby is affected by this too. Mine was affraid of sex...affraid to hurt the baby. HE sounds very understanding. Things will change. Congrats and good luck.
2006-10-20 09:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone.I am 24 weeks pregant right now and I don't wanna have sex with my husband and I only see him on either every 5 days or every 10 days due to his work. But when I was pregant with my 10 month old me and him would have sex all the time.So I guess all pregnancys are different.
2006-10-20 10:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been pregnant 4 times and I have to say ....NO U R NOT ALONE!!! All 4 times my drive decreased badly.. But also at times I couldnt get enough of my husband.. Give that great hubby of yours a hug and kiss for understanding thi sdifficult time.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-20 09:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by sensual_sweet1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not alone, I ask this same question weeks ago. I don't have my drive since i been pregnant and now I am 27 weeks and I still don't have it. But my husband is so wonderful and understanding, but sometimes I still want to please him and don't have the drive too. So your not alone
2006-10-21 12:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by msleya2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, I was still am the same as you, although the difference is that I made him do his own hand action, as it made me physically throw up, dont worry, it will return when you are more settled, and stop thinking about it,. You know what, I should listen to my own advice, my husband is lucky to get it once a month.
2006-10-20 09:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by the mumma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Through every single one of my pregnancies I was not in the mood at all. Other pg women were saying how great it was for them and I was like "ugh, I'd rather sleep than go through all of that trouble" So no, you're not alone. I wish I could say that it got better...
2006-10-20 09:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by sunshineandsilliness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although everyone is different I done that with another pregnancy of. mine! This one was backwards. I had NO DRIVE BEFORE I got preg. then now that I am 21 weeks I am different. It is your hormones! They could change as the time goes along although they may not like I said everyone is different. BEST WISHES!
2006-10-20 09:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. We all go in cycles where we are content and other times we want more. Babies tend to change perspectives on sex drives but alas it doesn't hurt the baby at all. Your desire will return at some point.
2006-10-20 09:23:11 · answer #11 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋