2006-10-20 02:03:10 · 22 answers · asked by misssheilaofori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why don't you send him a message. Shouldn't he stop?
2006-10-20 02:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by sharon_misspriss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, why send her a message. Why not send him one instead? It takes two and stopping her is not going to stop him. If you say something to her, you are being jealous. If he needs to be seeing other women, do you want that the rest of your life?
Trust is one of the most basics for a healthy relationship. If I can't trust the person I am with, I don't need the relationship.
Good luck
2006-10-20 09:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if he is cheating you need to get a message to him. Second if she knows he is cheating don't worry about insulting her,. She is doing that to herself already by being the other woman. You deserve more. Find out if she knows he is with you first. Good luck
2006-10-20 09:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT SO YOU MEAN YOU DON'T WANT TO INSULT HER???HAVE THEY BOTH NOT INSULTED YOU????YOUR PRIDE, SELF RESPECT, YOUR HEART, YOUR TRUST?????
Do not worry about hurting anyone's feelings, they didn't worry about yours and you don't need to bother. If he cheats on you once, he will cheat again......ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!REMEMBER THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11You need and deserve to havee someone love you for you. When you walk into a room you know at that moment that you hav never felt more love in your entire, life, than that moment when your eyes met and he watched you walk over to him. That is the kind of man you need. Not one who lies and sneaks to find some strange booty. Anyone who messes with a guy and knows that he is with someone is a HO!!!!!!
You send her a message, and tell her exactly what you feel!!!
and if she wants to talk you tell her to ask me a question!!!I GOT AN ANSWER FOR HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, AND DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!KICK HIM TO THE CURB, IF YOU FORGIVE HIM NOW YOU WILL FORGIVE HIM EACH TIME OVER AND OVER AND HE'LL NOT HAVE NO REASON TO STOP.
GOOD LUCK AND BE STRONG, I KNOW IT HURTS, BUT HE WASN'T HURTING WHEN HE WAS WITH HER, AND OBVIOUSLY DIDN'T CARE IF YOU WOULD HURT LATER....HE MAY SAY I NEVER MEANT TO HURT YOU, BUT IF THAT WERE TRUE......................HE WOULD HAVE NEVER CHEATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DAPHNE
2006-10-20 09:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you NEED to do is dump his sorry ***! Have some respect for yourself and get him out of your life NOW!
Second of all, it takes two...Not one, TWO. Do not worry for her feelings sinch she is a lousy definition of a woman. Send her a message if you want, but do not feel a need to pitty her.
Third...dump his sorry behind. Yes, I know I already said this, but I can not stress it enough. You are worth more than that peice of slime!
Best of luck :o)
2006-10-20 09:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why send her the message? Hes the one cheating on you.
2006-10-20 09:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off all does she know he has a girl friend?
If she don't know about you,then speaking with her would likely do some good.
If she already knows about you then talking to her is not going to do any good because she does not care.
It is the guy you need to be talking to and trying to get him to stop.
2006-10-20 09:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't stop messing with my man.....
I'll track you down and pull off your fingernails, one at a time, after I beat the crap out of you.
Or you could say, I hope you are not sleeping with him. We have this vinerial desease that we can't get rid of and since we both have it, we're just dealing with the symptoms as they arrise.
2006-10-20 09:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl - you are way TOO kind. find out about her. maybe this gives you something to put pressure on her. does she have a boyfriend?? ;) or otherwise it makes no sense. i mean, does she know about you?? and him having a gf at all?? then, yes, you could contact her. good luck!!!
by the way: i'd say something like "you are hurting our relationship and intend to destroy something. hope this never happens to you." if she is a bad girl doing all for her pleasure and not taking care, write like "i know who you are. say hi from me (to every future boyfriend of yours. obviously we have the same kind of taste for men.." "i will be thrilled and curious to meet your man/men in the future"
make her sense danger. not physical. but "love-danger". you know what i mean. make sure she gets the hint.
2006-10-20 10:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by india18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would tell him strait up its over, me and my bf argue and get mad at eachother, but never once about us cheatin on eachother. if he were to cheat on me it would hurt,but i would have to end the relationship, and about her i wouldn't care about insulting her, shes already insulted U by messin with Ur man, I would go to her and let her have it.
2006-10-20 09:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋