do men feel the need to look at porn if they are 'getting a bit'?
My partner looks at porn everyday and we have sex everyday. Is there a reason for this?
2006-10-20 01:58:58 · 22 answers · asked by mudhonei 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I cant look at it with him if he does it when i'm at work
2006-10-20 02:01:27 · update #1
Ok i look at porn (i love looking at porn). im kinky and he seems to like it. i don't know?!
2006-10-20 02:04:15 · update #2
I don't think that i am getting the benefit if he has a play before he goes to work. (we work different shifts)
2006-10-20 02:06:37 · update #3
men are born to be wankers.
2006-10-20 02:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
He is one of those porn junkies, sorry. You could throw a fit about it or play along. Cut your pictures out and place them on the heads of the porn magazine girls. And if it is movies that he looks at then start dancing sexy like a stripper for him. I mean act dirty hon' like you are a porn star. If it takes awile for him to stop with the porn just remember it is a habit an habits are hard to break. He is not doing it because he doesnt enjoy you. It is simply something men get addicted to after all they do not think with the same brain as we do. lol.
2006-10-20 02:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by determined26a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men are visual creatures
The sight and sound turns a man on where most women I think are turned on by emotional things that's why most women will give in when a guy says but I love you but to look at porn everyday is a bit obsessive.
2006-10-20 02:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some men are infantile in that they want porn on line more than they want actual sex.
Try this, twice a day.
It could be that his sex drive is more than yours.
If you wear him out, and he still needs stimulation on line, he has a problem.
I've been in an instance where my wife wanted it 3 times a day,
and I didn't even think about outside!
Dave
2006-10-20 02:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn is an obsession and addiction that will definitely destroy your relationship.
When he makes love to you he has some porn star on his mind stimulating him. Eventually he will want you to 'perform' then he will lose interest in normal sex because he finds porn more exciting.
This is a destructive habit and will only bring heartache.
2006-10-20 02:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
why is the sky up high, and the moon so pale and yellow?
Don't ask why.. just supply the porn woman!
oh yeah, many men are insatiable and you answered your own question.
.. " if they are getting a bit".
a BIT is not enough for some.. enter porn.
2006-10-20 02:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Pablo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there's a biological imperative, which has to do with men wanting to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Sicne this instinct runs counter to the smooth functioning of a monagamous relationship, my advice is to express to your partner how this makes you feel and see how you feel about his response.
Many men struggle with a quasi addiction to pornography, and increasing consumption never satisfies them. You want ideally to change the dynamic so the man sees the advantages of mongamy. It's is not that looking at other women is bad, but that it hurts you that will make him change. Maybe.
2006-10-20 02:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by snowgoose8 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my last boyfriend was like that, we failed after 2.5 years. It is a problem if he can't let it go for more than 1 day. dont let any guy tell you its normal. watching it is normal, but everyday use is a problem, trust me. I think by exparience, guys who watch porn everyday, are thinking about other girls, not you everyday, which leads to cheating. My best advice I hope you take it because I feel basd to see another girl go through what I did, is to leave him if he can't leave his porn.
2006-10-20 02:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he wants to try some new postures with you...
Maybe you just provide the hole,he may just fantasize of the porn actress he watched .
2006-10-20 02:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it turn him on and then he gives it to you whats the problem you are getting the benefits of something you don't even work for! enjoy and leave him with his porn.
2006-10-20 02:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person, I don't look at porn.
2006-10-20 02:00:41 · answer #11 · answered by Webballs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋