this year when i started 9th grade i saw this new kid and i cant get him off my mind and iv never felt anything 4 a guy b4 and i dont know what to do. and i dont know why im felling this way. can someone help me with this?
2006-10-20 01:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you have a crush babe. nothing really to do about it. go talk to him about general school stuff and see if you can tell if he is gay. Then take it from there.
2006-10-20 02:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not unusual to have attractions or even crushes on the same gender. People who are insecure or fearful, or just plain ignorant, will tell you that means one thing or the other. It doesn't. Its just your body's way of telling you that something about that person "pushes your buttons". It doesn't mean you are gay or bisexual, nor does it mean you are straight. Sometimes people have a clear message from their sexuality and they know exactly what they are attracted to from childhood or puberty. But most people go through periods of time when they are confused by the messages they get.
I don't know what rules your folks have about dating, but I didn't let my daughters date one person until they were 16. So socialize in groups(its more fun anyway), and don't worry about it. Depending on the culture you are coming from and the society you live in, you are probably going to have to be a very strong person with good strong family support to explore your sexuality if you are gay or bi. Right now, just have fun with everyone. And don't worry about it, what's going to be will present itself in time.
2006-10-20 09:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you just think he is really cool and want to be with him. Sometimes one can get confused, especially as a teeneager with rampant hormones, between different kinds of attraction. I only say this b/c you state that this is the 1st time. If you are still attracted to girls and only feel "strange" feelings for this one boy, it's probably a "friend crush". If you feel real sexual feelings towards him and other boys, then I suppose you need to explore that side of yourself.
2006-10-20 09:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just give yourself to process your feelings. Lot's of straight people get little crushes on the same sex - it really doesn't mean anything - especially since this is the first time you have had feelings. Just see how things progress. Don't stress!
2006-10-20 09:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really like him. These feelings are natural towards anyone you have a crush on. Just need to deal with them. Try to meet the guy if you don't know him already
2006-10-20 10:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in the 9th grade, I had a strong desire to steal some ice cream out of the school cafeteria. No one told me to "go for it."
2006-10-20 09:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wilson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... Well, i think the best thing you can do for now is to befriend him...Is he cute or something? Cause i'm kinda experiencing something like that now... And my move is what I just adviced...But then i realized that I just want to be friends...
I was relieved...
2006-10-20 09:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like now by says
go for it and dont fight the feelings
2006-10-20 09:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight the feeling, if you like him and he likes you, them by God do it and have fun .You only live once.
2006-10-20 09:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by now_by1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FEELING.....not FELLING
2006-10-20 11:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋