I been datin this guy for 2 months now! He's everything I've wanted. Story short, he has an Ex-wife which they share 2 kids. When we are together he never wants me to go and he WANTED me to meet his kids. He seems so interested in me! He let me know the password 2 his email. I've had this password for 2 weeks & never used it. Today, for some reason i decided to log into his email for the 1st time & I find this email he sent her last night after I left from his house:
"just wanted to see if u where online i was hopin 2b able 2 talk 2u tonight i miss hearin from u anyways ur mom called & asked me if ya'll could get the kids on sat. i told her that that would be fine but I'm going 2 take them 2 the BBQ festival sat. mornin i will bring them over sometime after that. Tomarrow I'm goin 2 take them skating. Well i love u and i miss u very much bye talk to u later ok
What do you think? Should I end it? Does he love her? Is he using me for sex? Give me whatever opinion you can PLEASE!
2006-10-20 01:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems like he has some left over feelings for his ex and he needs to tell u whether or not he wants to be with you. It's not right for him to stay with u when he is always thinking of her.He needs to get his sh*t right
2006-10-20 02:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should end the relationship becasue it seems like he is only with you to help him get over his relationship with his ex-wife. He's on the rebound. He probably just wants you for sex also to make himself not think about his ex. But you know that he will never really be over his ex-wife since he do have 2 kids with her. They will always be connected to eachother and it might be a chance that if he dont really want to be with someone else at this time and that he want to work things out with her but is trying to make her jealous. If he really miss her and wants to be with her you should get out of the relationship and let them be together before its too late and you end up getting hurt.
2006-10-20 08:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neccessarily, i still tell my ex i miss him, and sometimes that I love him, as in love - care about, not 'in love' with, this is probably what he means, i mean they were probably together a long time and have kids so is bound to still be feelings there, don't panic it doesnt automatically mean 'lurve' , anyhow he wouldnt of given you his passowrd if he had anything to hide! Also if he was just using you for sex he wouldnt of introduced you to his kids would he?
2006-10-20 02:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you to run like hell,he truly means what he wrote and it does'nt matter what excuse he gives you , you will be the one in the end going crazy always wondering, always checking up on things, he has way to much baggage. He may love you but in a different way, they have history and children, like you said is it the sex?
2006-10-20 01:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by dave w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would personally end this relationship. You will never be happy
with this guy. You can get a guy who is going to love you and only you. So get the hell out of this relationship before he hurts you even more
2006-10-20 01:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! End it now. He's using you while he waits for her to decide whether she wants him back or not. It sucks that when he's with you he can't wait for you to leave so he can talk to her... been there, done that, its not fun being the "other woman". Now you know what he's doing. Time for you to get out and find someone else. good luck!!
2006-10-20 01:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by gotcookies? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALERT !!! he loves her ~ but he is having sex with you and your falling hard for him ! that's number 1 misses her OK well then why are they divorced ! Hun walk away from this guy .. he sounds confused and you don't need all that drama kids ex wife to much baggage ! i will change it from walk away to RUN AWAY !!!! and don't look back best of luck ! E L
2006-10-20 01:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would end the relationship before you fall for him deeper.
All it is going to take is her to tell him she loves him and wants him back and you will be history.
2006-10-20 01:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋