she started a new job then got a phone call on her mobile from a man, whom she claimed was a crank caller, however he did not make any attempt to hide his number, it was a house number
2006-10-20 01:37:18 · 49 answers · asked by V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if this is your whole evidence - you guys seriously need to talk -
2006-10-20 01:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ruthie Baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A crank caller? Seems suspicious said that way and not "wrong number". That said I wouldn't jump the gun either. Marriage is a very important thing that too many people take too lightly these days.
This is a conversation you need to have with her, but do it outside of the moment when something happens. Be sensative about your approach or even if she isn't this could get out of hand.
Is this the ONLY thing that makes you suspect something?
2006-10-20 01:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by David W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No time for guess work. Better start asking her some critical questions, I have always relied a lot on my intuition - don't ignore yours. Maybe it's nothing but why sleep on - out of respect I would ask her about it first and tell her that the way the scenario went down it doesn't seem logical to you that it would be a crank caller - -at least this puts her on notice that you're no fool and you're on your toes. . sometimes people do things cause they think you're sleep at the wheel ya know?
2006-10-20 01:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is your only evidence, i'd say you have some insecurity issues. if you're not too sure, then take a mental note of the phone # that called her, and view your cell phone bills and see if that # pops up frequently on your bill. if so, then at least you'll know it wasnt a crank caller. check this website out http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/catch_cheating/public/catch-cheating-spouse.html
also, if you think you're wife is cheating on you and all you have is a phone call and you confront her with that, THAT phone call is not proof of an affair, and shes going to know that. so, what, you caught her talking to a man. that doesnt mean there is sex going on. a cheater will only admit to what he/she was caught doing. and if none of the evidence suggests, without a doubt, that sex is going on, then why admit it?
2006-10-20 02:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what you said, i would say that isn't enough to say she is having an affair..if that is all that happened, sounds like you are insecure with your marriage and don't trust her..if it really bothers you why didn't you call the no..back? if she was having an affair i would had thought she would had hide the no..just because she got a new job and someone called her doesn't mean she is having an affair..if you are not secure with your marriage, i would suggest for you to get some help..find out why you may want to think this way..if she is having affair, you will start to see lots of things that will point you in that direction..blessings
2006-10-20 02:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you can't be so paranoid as to wonder if your wife is having an affair just cos she got one dodgy call. Maybe it WAS a crank caller. If you have no other reason to suppose she is having an affair, then you need to chill out AND TRUST HER!
2006-10-20 08:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a lover why would he leave a trail to his name? Most crank callers are not the brightest bulbs in the lamp. Are you having problems in the marriage? If so seek guidance at church or thru therapy. If not don't create one by being jealous. If you ask and she says no trust her as if you were in her place.
2006-10-20 01:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get wrong number calls on my mobile and on my home calls pretty often. If it is the only thing that is making you suspicious, don't be.
The wierdest one was a drunk girl that called my house at midnight. My hubby answered, and evidentally she liked the sound of his voice, bec. she called back in 15 mins. She started asking him about himself. He then proceeded to tell her he was 50 yo, happily married for 17 years and not at all interested. She called again the next night- he then handed the phone to me to listen in too and we both told her to quit calling us, we're old and we need our sleep. We just laughed about it; you gotta trust each other or a relationship is doomed.
Anyway, if your wife starts coming home much later, acting differently toward you, getting lots of calls from the same man's #, then I'd worry. Right now it sounds like your just being a little too worried about nothing to me :-)
2006-10-20 01:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mary K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started getting calls where the caller just slammed the phone down, i got suspicious but said nothing, a couple of days later my misses pulled me up saying she was getting the same calls, she was thinking the same thing, maybe it's just paranoia.
2006-10-20 01:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by DAVID H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person didnt hide his number then maybe it's a wrong number. Why do you think that she is having an affair? But if you concern about that call the number and see if he knows your wife.
2006-10-20 01:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense a lack of trust here, why after 1 prank call would you automatically assume its an affair?? or why would you look at the number in the 1st place to see who it was?? you and your wife need to talk as there is obvoiusly some underlying issues here.
2006-10-20 02:15:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋