I have a problem finding a steady partner due to the fact that after sex they can't be with me b/c of penis size. They all say it's too painful. I've heard that heavier girls can handle larger penis' better, but I'm not in to heavy girls. I litteraly made a girl cry once. This is driving me crazy. I can't enjoy sex b/c they never do. Any ideas?Please help. I didnt know so many people wanted to know the size. It's just barely over 10 inches in length and i've never measured girth, but it is evenly proportioned. If that helps. And I've tried slowing down and going easy.
2006-10-20 01:36:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I've had girls who can take for short periods of time, but not for much longer than five to ten minutes.
2006-10-20 01:48:46 · update #1
Girth should not be a problem; remember, they pass babies through there. I am guessing that length is your problem. From personal experience, I know that most women can't handle ramming by a large organ. You are going to have to go slower and not so deep, but it should work for you. We all like to pound it, but it's just a macho thing, because all of the sensation comes from the glans anyway. Just operate quick and shallow.
2006-10-20 03:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try using more lubricant and more foreplay. Giving her oral sex and manual stimulation to both the clit and vagina to orgasm will help with relaxing her, putting her in the mood, and producing her own natural lubrication.
I would also try positions that are naturally very shallow such as being on your sides, Spooning Position. Let her be in control of the movement. Things will go easier for her as she also gets more experience working with a large penis.
10 inches is a large penis. Yet, most women should be a to handle it with pleasure once they understand their bodies and yours. I would work on technique and not worry if something is wrong with your size.
I like this question. I often answer men who would love to have your penis. I think that this question shows that all of us can be uncomfortable with our bodies.
AJ
2006-10-20 01:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should not go for the HEAVY female but a slightly thicker girl than what you are usually attracted too.
However, 10 inches, I do not think it has anything to do with the size of the body. Maybe you should try extra lube than just using or depending on hers. Maybe you need to be less force full. Take is slower.
2006-10-20 01:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using lubrication as the wetter she is the easier it will be.
Take it slowly like inch by inch and not thrusting hard if you can do it little by little it may take a while but in time she will be able to accommodate you without her having pain.
2006-10-20 01:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I ran over Chuck Norris because of the fact vast poultry suggested to and he's my chief. yet i'm petrified of massive poultry...=( i think that's why he's my chief. LOL My Dad sniffed his Granny because of the fact he can no longer administration himself... i'm gonna email this to three of my friends. i'm curious to work out what they have been doing...=)
2016-10-02 12:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying you need it, or that I think you should go out and do it right now. But one of your options is surgery. They can reduce the size for you if you're worried.
2006-10-20 01:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I have to say is where do you live and what time you'll be home tonight. I don't know what kind of girls you be doing but you just not with the right person. for me THE BIGGER THE BETTER.
2006-10-20 01:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by MMN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have her on top, so she can control how far it gose in, lubrcation can help yes, but often time the lenght can hurt because its hitting the cervix which can be painful for a women (like when they have a pap smear) So let her control how far it gose in that way you don't have to worry about hurtting her... :)
2006-10-20 02:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of lubrication will make it a lot better.. take it VERY slow with girls... A LOT of foreplay and playing with her to get her going and very wet will help. Play with her with your fingers and tongue to get her ready...
Don't go humping like a mad man.
2006-10-20 02:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Erica M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls like it but you need to get them very wet maybe try a lubricant or something or rub her clit will shes ridding u or something or when u have her doggy style.
2006-10-20 01:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋