I have this friend, she female, and she everywhere i go, she like storks me, it annoys me so much, n ive tried evry trick in the book, i mean ive tried tell her 2 get lost, i tried telling her i like her and every other trick... any other pieces of advice...
2006-10-20 01:31:54 · 22 answers · asked by IBRAHIM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think the best policy is honesty. I would continue to tell her that you are really sorry that things couldn't be different, but you really Don't see her in the way that she See's you. Ya know, sometimes, someone just needs to feel like someone cares enough to say hi to them to keep them going daily. So maybe you shouldn't mist-rude her kindness for what it is. Maybe you out of thousands, were the one person who made her feel like a person, and she can't let go of that. Maybe she only wants to be friends, and doesn't have any. Obviously their is some compassion in your heart because you still talk to her, and maybe you don't want to be mean to her. but sometimes, you have to be stern. If she doesn't get the message, tell her that she needs to not smother your kindness. That you talk to her to be nice, not so she thinks that their is a chance for you all to hook up. That you are not going to be her friend if she can't find some way to draw the line. and take your kindness for what it is. kindness.
GOOD LUCK,
but remember, she has feelings, and is a person, and obviously, she likes you even if the feeling isn't mutual. Don't be mean be understanding. I'm sure that not everyone you've liked has liked you back. Just use a little tact.
DAPHNE
2006-10-20 01:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is stalking you, then warn her you will report her to the police if she doesn't back off. That should work...
If you are over reacting then chill , she might be travelling in the same circle of friends....
You never know what is on some people's minds...don't jump to conclusions until you really think about it.... then act appropriately
2006-10-20 01:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have so many friends that you cannot invite one more into your group. She can't be everywhere you are unless you are informing her through general talk.
Be nice but firm when you tell her that you "Don't" want her hanging around with you.
P.S. she likes you and think that you are her friend.
2006-10-20 01:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to get rid of sum1 u shud b rude.....
Yes.... u shud b rude enough to scold her so as she doent follow u again!!!! Now... according to me if she whenver comes to u just simply ignor eher! Avoid her so much tht shes iritated....she shud also noe tht u just wanna tell her to get lost!!! U dont need her presence or her company...just try to avoid it rudely... Well if shes a human thn i think she wont follow u ne more ....atleast if u'll ignore her so much ...just think how much time can she b after u???
2006-10-20 01:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Neha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, phone MI 5 and tell them you know of a spy
2006-10-20 07:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by mefussa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of telling her to get lost, why dont you just tell her the truth and tell her why you dont want her following you. Might hurt her feelings but at least your been truthfull
Good Luck
2006-10-20 01:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by louise12041987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore any phone calls or texts,if she asks where your going make something up always be somewhere different to where you said,she'll soon get peed off
2006-10-20 03:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fish round the face one sounds good.
2006-10-20 01:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by DAVID H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either very persistent, or very stubborn,,,just go about your daily routine, and ignore her. See, but you told her you like her...that's like feeding a puppy, and hoping it will go away. Ask her why she is stalking you?
2006-10-20 01:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some harsh words whilst holding a shotgun to her head should do it...
2006-10-20 01:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by mark leshark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋