I was dumped by by fiance of 3 years three months ago and he left and moved home to Canada. I built myself up at home (UK) and tried to move on. about a month ago he called and said he made a huge mistake and loves me more than anything, but I hung up on him, after saying hastily that I had to go. He never called back.
Meanwhile I am here, I have got a good job and a chance at a great career. I have made a couple of good friends whom I love to bits.
However I can never seem to forget my ex. I often worry if he is alive and happy. I reminiss about the amazing times we had, i.e. when he proposed to me. I think about how he said he needed me on the phone. I often wonder what would have happened if I hadnt hung up, but then why didnt he ever call back?
I believe that a guy should fight for you if he really loves you, am I just a woman that expects too much? I often worry I am waiting for a fairytale and not accepting reality.. what do you think?
2006-10-20 01:24:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
FOLLOW YOUR HEART and to hell with what everyone else thinks ! You only live once!
2006-10-20 01:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he called says something. If you still have feelings for him and would like to one day be with him, I suggest you call him back. You and he need to get together and talk over what happened and why he decided to call the engagement off. You may also want to decide if you think you are better off without him. If you are happy with your life and want to make a fresh start, then by all means do so. But if you think you will still want to be with him down the line, It won't hurt anything to just talk things out and see where it goes and see where he is coming from. Lots of Luck!
2006-10-20 01:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Karin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know if you don't pick that phone up and call him..he knows what has happened and probably thinks that you won't forgive him..no matter if you get back together or not..forgiveness opens many of doors..i know that it might seem hard to do..but you won't be able to allow anyone to come into your heart until you know for sure..sounds like you are not over him..and you really need to know just want is going on..even if he has moved on, and is with someone else..pick the phone up, call him and tell him that you are going to forgive him..not just to get back with him, but for you both to move on..as far as him fighting for you, sounds like that is what he tried to do..blessings
2006-10-20 01:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say forget about him, but it sounds like you've got the rest of your life under control. Maybe you should call him back. He probably got up enough nerve to call you the first time, he probably wont call you back. If you think he genuinely meant it...maybe you should try it again. Call him and just see what he says.
2006-10-20 01:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not expecting too much, if he really likes you he will fight for you, cross the widest ocean, climb the highest mountain just to be with you and get you back, in not calling he is just trying to see if he can get an easy lay and then move on out again, you are right in what you did and stop thinking of the good times with him, in fact those are not good times they are just all pretend times on your ex bf part, forget about him and moved on!
2006-10-20 01:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you made a mistake by hanging up the phone..you just lost the Love of your life ....
2006-10-20 01:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he trully loves you he will call back, good luck
2006-10-20 01:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋