iam a muslim girl and i love a hindu boy truly i want to be with him but his parent and my parents are against

Question

iam a muslim girl and i love a hindu boy truly i want to be with him but his parent and my parents are against it wat shud i do

Answer 1

Ask yourself these questions. Are both of you adults i.e. of marriageable age? Does he love you equally? Does he have a regular income i.e. can he support a family independently? Can he protect you from the pressures of society and also your respective parents' wrath, considering yours is going to be a mixed marriage? Is he prepared to leave his family, if they don't agree to your marriage at any cost? Are you prepared to leave your own family for the sake of this marriage? Are you prepared to disregard adverse opinions/reactions from society and your respective parents and possible souring of relations between the two families as consequences of your marriage, after you marry? Are you sure that your present love for each other will not crumble under pressure after your marriage? If the answer to all these questions is 'YES', then just go ahead and marry him or elope, whichever you mutually find more suitable. If the answer to one or all these questions is 'NO', take your time and think deeply. Talk to the boy over again. Don't rush into things. Life is a lot more complicated than you possibly imagine.

Answer 2

Be back.
Here I am.

I do not know how old both of you are, but if you are truly mature then you must do what is you (both) think is the best for you.

You said "want to be with him", does this mean you are planing a wedding in near future.

First of all you cannot do anything by yourself, he has to be involved also.

Here are the "Q?" Both must ask and truly answer.

Can you support yourself?
Just 21 years old and out of school or college is not considered mature. Some mature very early say at 9 years, some mature around 30 years some mature around some times after 30 years and some never mature. Every one thinks they are mature enough but every one is not mature in some ways including me. This is a stearn fact of life.
What about religion of the offspring's?
Do you have place to live?
You think both parents will except you later when they see that you are doing well, are happy and are able to handle the difficulties of a interracial marriage?
And whatever other things that you both think of..........

Marriage is not easy in most well match love affair type or arranged type cases. Interracial usually has more burdens to tackle.

The parents have, as a rule, best interest of their children on their mind and heart and are guided by their instincts....... I can go on and on and on...

But enough said.

Rest is up to you two.

Answer 3

Hai Sherry,

You can convince your parents anytime but you can't do that to your lover boy.More than that one day or other your parents will pass away[forgive me it may b harsh but it's true] and you have to live with your life partner till you die. A rite person can't be found again & again.Think and make a rite decision. It's not easy to leave a person who you love and live with some other person.Better get married with your sugar boy.

More than that if you get married to a muslim only your family will be happy,But if you break the relegion with your true love and get married to that hindu boy the whole world will love you for your guts.

I beleive in one thing the most only love marraiges can overcome the caste system and make the world a better place to live.I

'm a hindu and i also want to get married to a guy of someother relegion but i didn't find him yet.........

and please select me as the best if u r satisfied with my ans.

Answer 4

don't go against your parents wishes. It might not seem a big deal now, but it doesnt help in the long run. Besides, personally i would say, children in a marraige where the parents are of different religion, never have strong faith in either.

whatever you do, think of the future,and use your head and not just your heart. how old are you, by the way?and how long have you known this guy?

Answer 5

In long run It is not good. You must be beautiful. After 10 years beauty and everything goes . True love persist for ever. Just think 10 times. It is about your future. What attracted you at him to come to this decision?. Just listen to what your parents say. Dont take decision in hurry. At this age everything will look rosy. After sometime you will endup in trouble. As per Indian culture I strongly say you should follow your parents only

Answer 6

Honey that sucks it is the worst thing in the world when parents try and rule there childrens lives. You need to figure things out yourself and your parents arent helping! I dont think i can help you but ask them if they could respect your wishes because you are not a child and that you are your own person!

Answer 7

I have been in the same situation, got end up getting seperated, hopefully will not be your case.I appreciate your love towards him, but in my opinion you should probably wait for your career. Time will bring the best out of you two. So as for now, just sit back relax and focus on your career first, and I am pretty sure you'll get what you want. Best of luck!!

Answer 8

Try to reason out with your parents. They are still your parents and they only want the best for you. Explain to them how and what you feel. I am sure a compromise can be arrived at. It is still important that you should have your parents' blessings in the one of the most important phases of your life!

Answer 9

Depends on the boy as well as you. You will have to be patient true love will always win. Have the courage to wait and allow both of you to completely fall in love then you need not care. When - Mia Bibi Raji tau kya kare ga Kaji

Answer 10

Religion, politics and money, the three curses of mankind. Some people can never mature beyond the boundaries created. You and your hindu boy will have to make your own decisions.