when I was 12 I fell in love with him but never got to do/say anything about it. we both changed and grew apart we never really see each other. I will be seeing him next month and he is my first love, has been on my mind on and off since I was 12.
There is absolutely no future with us, I'm dying to tell him cause I loved him so so much. we might never see each other again after next month cause I'm moving.
If anyone no matter who ever EVER loved me this way I'd want to know. Do you think I should tell him?
The only reason I haven't yet is cause I'm afraid of his reaction. I have thought of him so much over the years and if he has a really negative reaction I don't know how I'd feel.
2006-10-20 01:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by anabanana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats a tough question..Personally, i would tell him...Why wouldnt you..If he knows you feel like that, you never know what could happen...I hate it when i should have said something, but instead bit my tongue..Dont wait till your eighty and start saying when i should've did...A closed mouth dont get fed...
2006-10-20 10:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by I'll bee dat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him! Put it in a way thats warm and caring and not crazy and scarey! Say "Hey we have known each other for a long time and I just want you to know how much I have thought about you and loved you all of these years". Then let him take it from there! The way you say it could mean just as friends or more see what the reaction is!
2006-10-20 08:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't just go up to him and gush out "Oh my god! I have loved you since I was like 12!" I would just start up a conversation with him. Ask him how things have been going with his life and then just kind of slip it in there. Like, you know, I had the biggest crush on you, but I never said anything. You never know where the conversation will go from there! Best of Luck!
2006-10-20 08:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Karin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
You have loved him for 12years?or is it infatuation? if you sure it's not infatuation and you love him.Just go and tel him.
Trust on a stranger (Me).Go and tell him. If he accepts your proposal, he too thought about you for the past 12Yrs.
If he doesn't then he didn't think about you and may think about you now.
Why are you afraid of his reaction Sweet? He wouldn't eat you up.
Hope you have the success.
2006-10-20 08:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by ithunderhyderabad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u going tho!!!!!!!
it's a b**ch aint it!!!!!
i think it best to leave it hunni.
i never tell the one i love how i truely fill.
cos i got a lovely girlfriend now who i do love so so much and as u said im scared of that they mite say.
it hurts sometimes but i got my girlfriend now so it best to leave the past behind.
it up to u what u do hun. but thats what im doing.
make sure what u deside to do, thats it truely the right thing to do ok.
goodluck hun
xxxx
2006-10-20 08:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f you really loved him why wouldnt you i mean hes the one that you want if you dont tell him youll never be able to share a realationship with him.
2006-10-20 08:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Adena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go and tell him your true feelings, you shouldnt hold nothing in cause you right i would want someone to tell me their feelings too so tell him. Then you never knoe, he might want to be with you and hell he might move away with you.exchange numbers,emails and cell numbers...addresses too!!!
2006-10-20 08:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Nell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things better be left untold; if you want to leave it a treasure to feed on, don't let it out.
2006-10-21 07:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes .so you can go on with your life...If you don't you might be missing out on other life matter....Tell him...Never know if might before ever.....Next
2006-10-20 08:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by 3-selin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋