i think i am in love with someone, they have recently split with their ex, she says she ants to be with me, and is asking time to think
2006-10-20 00:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by hicapaul 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's not necessarily a bad thing! I think the biggest thing when you have just come out of a relationship & realise that you have feelings for someone else, is self doubt. You doubt whether you are just looking for a re-bound relationship or whether your feelings are genuine. Either way, you want her to work this out now before she starts anything new with you. Give her the time she requests, send her a sms just to let her know that you are there if she wants to talk to you. Don't let her think that you have lost interest bcos she asked you for some time to think, especially if you are serious about this girl!
2006-10-20 01:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by girls_lie_too_23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What will be will be..... give her sometime to think but ensure you set some sort of timescales in your own mind for her to reach a decision. If after this no decision has been made then It's time to move on. You too have a life to live and we can't wait around too long for something that may or may not happen.
2006-10-20 08:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by joelyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be good but be warned of rebound. My boyf told me on Wednesday that he had split with his girlfriend the day after meeting and kissing me, not months ago as he had said. He went to see her that night to sort things out and has now dumped me because he still loves her. Thats totally depressing , but be careful cos I though things were great between us. Good luck in whatever you choose to do.
2006-10-20 08:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always a bad thing, she probably needs some time alone to process the split, get herself in order emotionally.
2006-10-20 07:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to think, do you really want the extra baggage in your relationship, how can you be as one with each other when she is still getting over someone else, if you are meant to be with each other then it will happen, just be patient.
2006-10-20 08:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE HAS BEEN IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND SHE IS ON THE REBOUND GIVE HER SPACE OTHERWISE YOU WILL LOSE HER IF SHE REALLY LOVES YOU FOR YOU AND NOT HER EX YOU WILL COME ON TOP.
BUT SEE IF THE RIFT BETWEEN HER AND THE EX HEALS OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE HURT.
2006-10-20 08:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by tonyinspain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just sorting her head out and remembering who she is before jumping into another relationship, its perfectly understandable and normal
2006-10-20 07:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is always best to take time and make sure you aren't making a mistake.
2006-10-20 08:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to think then.............
2006-10-20 07:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋