must go to chruch on sunday's being that he don't attend wednesday nor friday nite service so the least he can do is go to chruch on sunday. Now when we first met he knew how strongly i felt about chruch we being knowing one another for 3 going on 4 years so im the same chic then as now so my question is what do you do being a woman you have to stick to what you beleive there's no breaking the rules reguardless to who they are men have tendices to try to change a woman to be what they want that's why we go through what we do tryin to please. N-E-Way I told him that if he don't go to chruch then we can't be together.All he say is i don't wanna go why not so i tell him it don't have to be my chruch find a good chruch home. I just don't see you missing chruch to do nothing. And he say he love me??? He's a good man but he don't wanna go to chruch.... Serious Answer's only Thanks in advance...
2006-10-20 00:52:56 · 12 answers · asked by sexychocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Has he ever been to church? Does he believe in God? If the answer is yes then he should go. I believe your doing the right thing by giving him an ultimatum. If he loves God and you then he will go otherwise I agree with you give him the boot..It's not like your asking to much of him. If he wants to marry you someday is he not going to want to be married in a church before the Lord? I would discuss it more with him, ask him to be completely honest as to why he doesn't want to go to church. What's so important to "skip" church? Maybe you two can find a compromise, that if he agrees to go that he can go every other weekend. Then he might want to go every week seeing how much you enjoy worship & praising the Lord. Best of luck to you. :)
2006-10-20 01:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of good men that don't go to Church, young lady! And there is a lot of bad men that do go to church! It is not the be all, and end all, of relationships! I'd suggest that you have a real good think about your actions, because they could affect your entire life! And in probability they have! Don't make the mistake of choosing your future mate through the church! It wont work!
2006-10-20 01:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he knew how strongly you felt about church, doesn't mean he shared your interest. Your can't force anyone to accept a religion. They have to do it on their own. If he wasn't down in the beginning, what makes you think that because you tell him to go he's going to do it. Just because he says he loves you, that does not mean that they want to do what you do. Let him do that on his own. If he's not serious about church then you don't have to stay.
2006-10-20 02:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for a relationship to succeed you have to share common interests, beliefs, and goals.
If you continue in this relationship you are setting yourself up for future unhappiness. You have no control over his actions or thoughts, you can only control your own.
So many people think that they can change another person, this is not true, an individual can change, but they have to want and seek the change themselves, for themselves.
2006-10-20 00:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that there is no way you can change guys’ life style. You just have to take the way he is…. It’s a whole package deal. There were millions of women who have tried to change their men and failed miserably. You just have to accept who he is.
On the other hand, we could use a divine intervention here. What we need is a Miracle! Keep praying for him.
2006-10-20 01:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by hulagirl717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is a good guy and you think that he really loves you why force him to go to church for what,. just because you like him to go, you are playing a power game here, it either go or what? if you want to keep the man and go to church don't force him too fast, just let him see you doing your christian duties and wait for the time that he will tell you he wants to go with you to the church, not because you want him to but because he likes to go...
2006-10-20 01:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the poor boy alone! you can't force anyone to go to church. If my boyfriend acted like that i would leave him straight away. You need to accept that you have differnt views on things in life and if he doesn't wana go then don't force him, you may push him away....
2006-10-20 01:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you cant force religion on him if he doesnt feel like going forget it. ;you just make sure that you observe your duties towards lord and someday he will surely come with u.
2006-10-20 00:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK you can't make some one go to church.YOU stay to gether? LIVE together? THIS is morally wrong, if your not married.
2006-10-20 00:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love him? you cant force someone to do something they don't want to do. if doesn't mean he doesn't believe or respect your feelings. maybe he is just uncomfortable. if you want things to work stop pushing.
2006-10-20 01:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋