In a previous question i asked how to prevent or deal with my boyfriend (whom i have been with for nearly two months) sulking! Lastnight i mentioned it to him, and he admitted he sulks, but said at that point he wasn't sulking. HE WAS SULKING! What can i do! How is the best way to deal with this????????????
2006-10-20 00:48:41 · 24 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sometimes sulks, i have noticed, when i pull him up on something like i say "why did you do that?" and he will sulk...or if i ask him about something, he will sulk...
2006-10-20 00:53:45 · update #1
Tell him to knock that **** off and act like a man!!
2006-10-20 00:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sulks so you notice and pay him attention?
So ignore him when he`s like that if he gets to bad treat him like a boy if you do it right he wont notice and will stop his sulking cos you see men are like little boys trust me i`m married?
2006-10-20 01:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by queen west 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it!! Mine does the same thing and there is nothing you can do, if thats really what they want to do.. If you can deal with it when it happens, just start ignoring and go on with whatever you are doing. Thats what I started doing and you know what happened?? He doesn't do it so much anymore.. I think sometimes it is a ploy for your attention and if you don't give it to them, then its not worth it for them to do it anymore. Also, if they are truly having a bad day or upset about something and they see you still enjoying the day, your mood seems to rub off.
2006-10-20 00:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's behaving like a child so treat him like a child and ignore the sulking
2006-10-20 00:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Morsel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've found reverse psychology always works well here. My boyfriend, now husband, was the world's best sulker.
Instead of being my usual bubbly self, smiling most of the time, i sat there in silence with a frown and said nothing.
The results?
He is now always annoyingly happy and bubbly and talkative. Bring back the shy silent reserve!
I can't concentrate on yahoo answers for goodness sake as he is always chatting!
2006-10-20 00:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by brainlady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know its early to ask,but do you love him?
If yes, then maybe you will have to find a different way to approach it when he dose things wrong.No body likes to be criticised, especially by some one we care about.If any thing i would try playing down the bad bits and focusing on his good points and praising him for those.If that doesn't work and he remains sulky, i would move on life is too short not to be with some one that makes you happy!
2006-10-20 01:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Janine B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he sulks again...get ready go out and leave him to it.....why be miserable because he is....just go on the piss till he stops....men never grow up they will always have that little boy deep within them...let him sulk but let him do it on his own
2006-10-20 01:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's bad! Look for the root of the problem, try to help him and if he don't want to change, get out of the relationship. Its only 2months, make a move before its to late! Good Luck!
2006-10-20 01:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
with your additional details I would say he is the type of person who hates arguments, so they go into a moody silence whenever you raise a subject they don't like.
I would dump him, as people who can not argue are very annoying and difficult to deal with
2006-10-20 00:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy that sucks means his immature and cant handle a situation as an adult. Dump him and give me a call love!
2006-10-20 01:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Woody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be around someone like that, seriously?! Surround youself with happy, optimistic people - it makes life more interesting!
2006-10-21 10:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by Dom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋