I haven't had a good nights sleep in weeks because my husband wants sex up to six times a night.I get woke up all night with him wanting me.We've been married for 11 years.Do you think he's been thinking of someone else,or is it just my sexiness that makes him want me constantly?Do you think i should just enjoy it and not ask too many questions?
2006-10-20 00:32:18 · 34 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry David S,but just because you can't perform,doesn't make it a lie.
2006-10-20 01:38:10 · update #1
I didn't say this has been going on for 11 years,i said we have been married for 11 years.
2006-10-20 05:23:41 · update #2
I think you're the sexiest he knows, otherwise you would have seen him missing from beside you at night.... I wish I were in his shoes!!!
2006-10-20 09:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by carlos298 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years six times a night is very hard to believe. If that was the case you would not be on here telling everyone that. I think you just want attention from other guys telling you that you must be sexy. If this is true then your husband has a problem and wants to find gratification through sex. Your husband must have lots of stress and is not able to sleep so he uses that in order to relieve the stress. Most men have a very high sex drive but 11 years six times a night. Sex could not be that good if it is that frequent.
2006-10-20 05:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it, my wife has been on the other side of the coin for about 3 years now. I am lucky if we get it on once a month. I've seen 3 months. She says she has no drive any more. I just live with it after 25 years, although I still want it 4 or 5 times a week.
2006-10-20 01:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky woman! If I wouldn't initiate I don't think we would ever have sex and I've only been married 1 1/2 years. When we were dating he told me that 6% of people have sex more than 4 times a week. We promised each other we would always stay in that 6%. Then we took our vows. What a fool I was! It was the end of 6%
2006-10-20 00:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you enjoying it? If you dont mind being woke up six times to have sex each night, then you should stop your questioning. As for him thinking about someone else. Only he knows for sure, but after eleven years you should just take it as it comes and be glad he can still get it up that often.
2006-10-20 00:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sabatoge a good thing. Be happy he is working his possible fantasies out with you and not with someone else as so many do. It also speaks well of you. Too many wives,gf's are sexually oppressed and picky about sex acts and frequency and aren't willing to accomodate the man.
It is also possible that he is feeling some sense of insecurity about you and is trying to compensate.
Trying making love twice a night and having him excercise control and cumming 2-3 times in each session. In this fashion you won't be getting up 6 times.
2006-10-20 01:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been having it for 11 years how did you wake up to realise what is happening .. I think you are lucky to get 6 goes a night ...not many get 6 a month .
Hope u get more
2006-10-20 00:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeeeeeeeeeez ! You are one Lucky Woman......I don't think he's thinking about anyone but you ! Thank God you know for a fact he's not cheating on you , because he wouldn't have the energy to do so .He could be just going thru a mid life crisis and he's taking it out on you , in a very pleasing way . Go with it and enjoy !
2006-10-20 00:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i think its really your sexiness thats causing it and secondly you are right that you just enjoy it and not ask too many question because i'm pretty sure there is a lot of housewives who will be more that esctatic to be in your place! have a good time and take a rest during daytime whenever you can!
2006-10-20 00:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it while you got it. Even if he is thinking of someone else it's probably a celebrity figure he'll never get. If you put some interest into it you may eventually wear him out, once he's satisfied things should become more "normal" for you. lol
2006-10-20 01:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it. he is not out with someone else, he wants you. Take advantge of this while it lasts. If he is doing it just for him to have and orgasm, and not you though, that can be a problem. Figure out a way to let him know that you have needs too. if you are both having orgasms, it might make it a little funner for you too.
2006-10-20 00:36:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋