i want to seduce my husband without letting him feel that i am obliging him to do sex with me..i feel i want him...but he rarely have a desire towards me as a lady...although i am so pretty and sexy...so what shall i do...
2006-10-20 00:25:59 · 19 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are lots of ways. Don't worry so much about him feeling "obliged" to make love to you. Most men are flattered and have increased self esteem if their wife says she wants to make love to him. Really, the best thing to do is talk to him and ask him what turns him on and what you should do to let him know when you want to have sex with him.
I can hardly imagine any guy that wouldn't feel turned on and flattered if you started with a soft kiss on the lips that got more and more passionate and then you put your hand down the front of his pants and caress him there. But ask him what turns HIM on.
You could even play a game with him where he tells you what he likes and you dress that way but each time do a different way. I once had a g/f that would do a strip tease dance for me without my asking her to do that. It was a big turn on for me.
I once told my x-wife that any time she wanted to have sex with me all she had to do was come into the room I was in with her blouse open and no bra on and that I would stop anything I was doing and lead her into the bed room.
If he's sitting somewhere and reading the newspaper, you could have your blouse open and no bra on, then lean over his shoulder and ask him if there is anything interesting in the paper.
Anyway, have fun with your husband. You could even give him some suggestions on what he could do to seduce you, and tell that you guaranty that they would work every time. It's not unusual for a man to have had a lot of rejections in this area before he met you. If so he might have some reluctance to initiate sex.with you.
He could have some medical problems that can cause loss of sexual desire and there are side effects from some medications that can cause this also. These should be checked out by a doctor if what I said doesn't help. Viagra can help a lot in almost all cases.
The biggest cause of lack of sexual desire in both men and women is unresolved anger issues with the other spouse. If you and he have and argument, try to come to solution that both of you can be happy with. If you or your husband get angry with the other, don't sulk or go around with an angry face, each spouse should calmly and respectfully, tell the other person that they feel the emotion of anger when the spouse did x, y, and z. Then each tells more fully what was going on in their mind and emotiones at the time.
That is the way to resolve anger issues so there is no unresolved anger that stays stored in you. Unresolved anger builds up over time and becomes resentment. For 1 or both spouses to be continually resentful toward the other spouse is bad for the marriage. It also reduces sexual desire.
Please don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that your spouse has unresolved anger toward you.
2006-10-20 01:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seduce Your Husband
2016-11-09 21:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him in the morning when he's just getting up for work he'll love it! when his alarm goes off start kissing his neck n go from there. remember tho its gotta be a quickie! I'm going threw the same thing right now he works long hrs 6am till 10pm er so.... So my husband is plain out tired when coming home so finally yesterday I seduced him last night n then this morning n can I tell you I feel much better!
2016-03-18 22:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer his depest desires become that desire for that night!
Become his fantasy that will seduce him and if he is blind and dosent fall flat on his face beging for you to take him.
Then he's a fool!
Because I bet it makes you feel ugly and no longer beautiful inside!
Flirt with another bloke be happy be friendly in a normal and natural way toward sother men show the other men that beauty. Hell wake up and want it to cos he wont want any man looking at you with lust full thoughts.
2006-10-20 00:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kate Sexy Legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The days and weeks leading up to sex are the most important way to 'seduce" your husband. If you treat each other with love and respect you won't have to work very hard to get it. All the little things you do for each other on a daily basis are the building blocks to a good sexual relationship.
2006-10-20 00:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by princessmonalisa 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have a nice dinner, rent a movie (sexy type either comedy or action) dress scantily (revealing with lengerie) during the move snuggle up to him, touching him (with your hands) and kisses, this will let him know you are interested and will tend to turn him on (just be carefull not to distract him too much during any good parts of the movie, aim instead for parts without much going on following sexy scenes).
If this doesnt get his attention try removing all clothing except the sexy lengiree, if he still doesnt notice remove the lengiree, at that point you either are getting laid or you can arrange the funeral, cuz he is dead. (or Gay but lets not go there)
2006-10-20 00:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by fsebentley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound to be a very confident lady and good on ya :) I think dress up in sexy clothes for him but not too obvious or try-hardish or he might know. And just walk around the house and let that confidence shine.
Also play with his hair and stuff, maybe massage. Good luck
2006-10-20 00:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-26 18:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-08 15:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some sexy lingerie and do a little strip tease for him.that should make him take notice:)
have some drinks beforehand and talk about your feelings.he is your husband after all you should be able to talk about these things
2006-10-20 00:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋