2006-10-20 00:23:05 · 18 answers · asked by gees_a_pint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It shouldn't make you feel less of a man. It was something beyond your control and you were part of helping her discover herself. My ex had a similar reaction when she discovered I was now gay and yet we are now the best of friends. Hope things work out for you.
xx ( Kisses are just for support, not in a gay way, lol)
2006-10-20 08:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by tara_365 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! it makes you more of a man for excepting it, for what it is! It's not your fault that she's gay! is it? Get on with your life pal, and don't give it another thought! Best of luck!
2006-10-20 07:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Those are her feelings about herself. You can't make someone gay. Although if you were really a bad partner, she may swear off men.
2006-10-20 09:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's to do with her, not you. She's probably just realised where her true feelings lie and she would've found that anyway whether she had been with you or not. It's amazing how men can feel so responsible for everything!
2006-10-20 07:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it would, at the end of the day it's nothing to do with you, she's probably always had it in her and found now is the time to to come out with it.
Don't worry about it!
2006-10-20 07:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by nicoled2408 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it means she just decided to come out of the closet....she has always been gay.
2006-10-20 07:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Just tell yourself that she knew that no other man could compare so she won't even try.
2006-10-20 07:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously a complete failure as a man.
I would be so embarrassed I would have to move away to somewhere I was not known
2006-10-20 07:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Seaman Staines 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope
it's got nothing to do with you, it's her hormones or genes or whatever it actually IS that decides whether a person is homo or hetero sexual
don't worry about it
2006-10-20 07:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how it could affect your "manhood" because someone was born with a certain type of brain.
2006-10-20 07:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋