My boyfriend has been so stressed out, he seems to be taking it on me. He told me he has until December to find a new job and to move out from his flat as his contract runs out and he needs to find a new flat. He is looking for a job in my country so it is not easy. However, I feel that he is extremely distant and gets nervous if I don't say the right thing. He told me yesterday that the only thing he is asking for is to be comprehensive and to be patient before we meet each other again as we live in different countries. I find so hard though.
2006-10-20 00:13:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You find it hard to be understanding and patient? If I understand your question correctly, he is doing all of this to be closer to you and is not even asking to mooch off of you. Be happy!
2006-10-20 00:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distant relationship is nvr easy and it required understanding, faith and trust. Different lifestyle and culture sometimes cause misunderstanding.
What you can do is help him find a place. Let him look for his own job. Tend to be tolerance at this stage cause he is under tremendous pressure. Listening to a man problem is never enough as he expect u to solve/share it.
Good luck!
2006-10-20 07:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he is your internet boyfriend since he lives in a different country, Distant love affairs are hard to maintain.
2006-10-20 07:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what cannot be cured has to be endured so........... your have to help him, he is doing his best to make the ends meet so you have to learn to be patient
i kno it is hard and it will take some time but if u 2 love each other sincerely you have nothing to worry
trust yourself, your love and leave rest to the tide of time
take care
2006-10-20 07:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by may_minu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fall for it , if he is taking it out on you make excuse's to clear your self of his path. an like the gal says , internet buddy? could be setting you up for money...they are all so good at this.
2006-10-20 08:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋