When chatting, I tell my close female friend that I'm glad she had a good night out-also feel happy for her if she met a boy(possibly pulled). Sometimes I encourage her to make a move on a boy she mentions. Basically when I do this, she always explains herself to me i.e. I went straight home, I didn't go out or pull anyone, I don't fancy him etc....
Even though I'm usually joking around, not being serious (her business anyway).
WHY does she do this???
Advice appreciated
2006-10-20 00:06:05 · 12 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah-when I mention a girl thats caught my attention, she DOES encourage me sometimes i.e.advice/tips BUT other times she just changes the subject.
WHY??
2006-10-20 01:10:01 · update #1
We have kissed once and thats when she decided we would remain friends, nothing more.
She says that I am attractive,its not my looks, nothing about my personality, she just could not give me a reason why we wouldn't get together.Everytime I suggest we stop meeting up, she tells me to stop being silly and to get that thought out of my head. Is it still wise to see her so often (I do still like her and she knows this,as I've told her)
Oh yeah-when I mention a girl that’s caught my attention, she DOES encourage me sometimes i.e. advice/tips BUT other times she just changes the subject.
WHY?? If she only wants to be friends???
2006-10-20 03:54:13 · update #2
Hello, the clue is in 'female'? And you males wonder why we women get cheesed off with you? Sweetheart, to quote Oscar Wilde: "women are meant to be loved, not understood". Accept this and you will live a happy and long life. And let your friend explain away, it makes her happy. She loves it that you listen to her.
2006-10-20 00:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably fancies you either that or is just saving you for a rainy day in other words til she gets a better offer in other words she likes you hanging because shes not yet made up her mind if she wants to be in a relationship or is just to scared you wont have the same feelings back. Id say be upfront sound her out playing games never works just dont second guess be true and honest always worked even if it only stops the confusion
2016-03-28 02:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to her? Are you worried she is attracted to you?
Usually girls like to explain themselves and hate to be link to people they dont like or dont have a crush on.
Being her close friend, she just being honest with you so you wont tease her about anything that is not the truth.
2006-10-20 00:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you... She's already giving you a hint that she's not interested in the guy she's dating and she's just waiting for you to ask her out on a date.
2006-10-20 00:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by swt_kimchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you. take the hint. girl's don't need boyfriends. if she calls you her friend and doesn't wanna pull or date other men. she is hoping to develope something special. some girls are one man material. they have there girlfriends to have fun with.
2006-10-20 01:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that she actually likes you more than a friend and isn't interested in anyone else.
2006-10-20 00:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she explain things to you bcos she found a place in your heart that listen to her.I think she loves you too.Take step if you are interested too
2006-10-20 01:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by oluwafeyisayofunmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you , Girls prefer dating their close friend cos it's easier.
2006-10-20 00:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by chillpep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might fancy you!!! and feel a bit awckward you tellin her to pull a guy
2006-10-20 00:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow this rule don't explain anything to your enemy because they won't believe you and you don;t have to explain anything to your friends because they are your friends anyway!
2006-10-20 00:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋