I am a lovely girl (I have been told that ha ha ha) very intelleigent graduated in Ba (Hons) Accounting and Finance with a first class degree, very beautiful and sexy, very funny and so on. 6 years ago I met this wonderful guy (I thought) a dentist and the main attraction was his intellegence I thought. We had a fundamental issue that is he did not want babies and I wanted. I offered many times to finish it of but he would not let me go. Not only that but he cheated on me many times and as I was concentrating in my studies I just could not do anything as I was away at university. He is going with a blonde and I mean a proper ***** who had many failed relationships, had 2-3 boyfriends at once, slept with women even with her own niece. Everyone understands but him. He proposed quite a few times and I turned him down. Yesterday as I was at his work place the Blondie rang presumably they had split up and he said that he is going back to her. I punched him and walked out. What do you think
2006-10-20 00:00:03 · 14 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why did it take you so long?
2006-10-20 00:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are more or less same .The point is find out who is running behind whom???? U? No Him? No .So i guess there are no relation at the end of 6 years...I know i know it was like I LOVE U,Miss u honey , etc stuff..These are quite common inorder to keep the relation nice n going.U might have figured it out within 1 year..its quite a lot of time for a girl like u as u said ur intelligent ,he cheated u coz u let him,Let me tell u something directly from my heart if u would have really mad about this guy..U wouldnt have insulted him in public ..no matter u mention his name or not...So the moral of the story is both of u didnt actually love each other but just infatuation.But my advice is dont follow the guy..there are better things to worry about ...Bye Take care
2006-10-20 07:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by nirupam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an intelligent, beautiful girl who seems to be sane and obviously knows how to support herself. You 're obviously not resourcefully dependent on this guy, so why did you stay with him so long? I know it's because you love him but I think he's way out of your league and you're better off without him. He's not worth the grief and by staying with him so long, you've missed out on better guys. Please dump him!!!!!!
Ask yourself one question... "do you see this relationship going anywhere and do you really want to be stuck with this sleazebag for perhaps the rest of your life?" answer that question, and you've solved your own problem.
From Shika and miniman
2006-10-20 07:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very intelligent & well educated. Don't earn a B*S* degree in male tricks & games. Find someone who will treat you with respect and on your level or higher. Never go beneath you & congrats on punching him--should have knocked him out.
2006-10-20 07:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by BK1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away and move on with your life. get your life in order and just ignore calls and if he comes near you have a restraining order put out. He does not love you nor respect you. you are his property and you have allowed this behavior to go on. Now you need to be the grown up and walk away..
2006-10-20 08:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you wasted 6 years of your life on this sleaze bag? Stay away from him and get a normal life with a good man (if you can find one).
2006-10-20 07:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't even bother with this guy, there are a lot of other nice guys waiting out there for a person like you... you are a gem! i wish i could meet you and i cn promise you the world!
2006-10-20 07:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance - He'll probably catch a disease at the rate he's going anyway!
Good luck for the future! x
2006-10-20 07:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Kazbaz ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got school brains but no common sense you should have broke up with him a while back
2006-10-20 07:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump him, Find a real man not a boy.
2006-10-20 07:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋