i have soooo many horrible memories that haunt me each day, and they have already caused me to try to kill myself, more then once. i just wish somehow i could forget about all the horrible memories, so maybe i could be happy with living instead of constintly wanting or even trying to end my life. i dont know what to do anymore, i just want to give up
2006-10-19 23:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have 3 therapist currently, they are no help to me, they make it worse
2006-10-19 23:51:12 · update #1
ohhhhhhhhh...we haVe thE saMe pRobLem..
i caNt hELp yOU wiTh tHAt...:-(
2006-10-19 23:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by ihateyou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IS this a joke?Don't be so desperate!How old are you to already have bad memories.nothing in the world worth as much as our life.remember that you i assume have parents and relatives, who care for you, and how would they feel if you do such thing horrible even to think about.every period of misery in our life is passable.everyone at least once in our life thought about killing him/herself.but doing that is soo selfish from your side.think of others.after the rain comes the sun.and so the sun will arise in your life too.just be patient.try to consult a psychiatrist.Learn to appreciate what you have.
Share some details from your memories so we can be able to help you.I can give u my mail, if you want to write to me whenever u like so i can talk to you and try to help u.until then, just keep repeating to ourself :what a f...k with the memories,i worth more than them, I appreciate myself".keep saying positive expresions.I hope i helped you a bit:(
2006-10-19 23:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by bizi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are our memories.
They make us who we are by giving us perspective and conscience. Without them, we are merely functional flesh robots.
That said, some memories can become intollerable. Modern psychiatry has some treatments (short of electroshock, which is pretty crude) to help people forget.
Talk to a pro. Ask for help in forgetting some of these horrible memories. And take the pro's advice.
Good luck.
2006-10-19 23:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to let go. but i know: easier said then done. try meditation and yoga - or whatever might fit for you. it worked for me to find back the beauty in live and how to be able to handle the past.
all the best
and i stopped whining at a certain point to - because it made it only worse. no more selfpitty dear!
2006-10-19 23:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trying to kill yourself is a sign for help-why do people try when it is so easy to do?
Go see a Doctor who can explain this to you!
2006-10-19 23:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by MalibuSS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I belive in forgeting the past..it may take some-time but heyy no-one should be angry at u for just forgeting..and if they r mad tell them to bak off..i mean its your life do wut u want...forget regret...i think u need to say that to urself alot more....have fun living ...u only have one life and y waste it..start over right now!
2006-10-19 23:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to find the right therapist for you. you have to put things into prospective and figure out which memory you need to deal with first. but please find another therapist to help you..
2006-10-20 01:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a councelor
2006-10-19 23:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh yes ptsd can make you misserable and so can alchol and bad memories lol i let them overwhelm me and yes i almost commited sucide many times due to that
2006-10-19 23:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by southernman_25_1979 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋