I dont always do that but always feel like doing so
2006-10-19 22:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
fear or incompetency of being truly committed to someone. commitment is a great issue for some people. probably if you look deep into yourself you 'll find that you are only acting like this because you want to avoid being hurt or hurt other people, or even maybe because you are not ready to take upon such a responsibility and devote yourself on your other half. in my opinion, a time will come that you will be bored and sick of sex with different people, and you' ll start searching for your significant other half. i strongly believe that you really miss out on all the fun and feeling of being complete, by not falling in love and share your inner thoughts and soul with another person. sex only then can really lead you to heaven, because it won't be just physical, the mind will play the greatest role and it can be a magical experience !!
2006-10-19 23:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just have a high sex drive and have not found the right person to satisfy your needs...
I wouldn't go around trying to have sex with different people, especially not if your in a relationship.
If your single, try making a couple of "freinds" whom you could call upon for a purely physical release from time to time...
Just be careful to set the boundaries, that it is purely physical and that there may be one or two others...
Always be honest and let them know you are not looking for a relationship, that way you don't end up with bunny boilers...
Good Luck
2006-10-19 22:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by KJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it could be something that you are lacking in your life. Such as love, the closeness of someone that really cares for you, it could be many things. The reason why I say this is because you are not jerk, that just want notches in your belt. It is bothering you, so you know is wrong. Try to get help on this. It might not be your fault, might be something that goes deeper than that. The love of your mother, did you have that growing up? So I wish you the best of luck, the fact that you think about it, and not do it, is good. I give you credit for that. God bless.
2006-10-19 23:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u r being so frank and brave to speak it out! u r totally normal, coz most of ppl (males & females) who feel so, do there best to hide it away. depends on you being married or not, believing in God and ethics... this restrects u of doing what u feel is wrong.
but as u say u feel it, u r being afraid of touching this line. u are insecured of being wild and acting crazy in public. now this is a psychological case but u don't need to worry about it that much.
all what u need to do is reinforce ur self-confident and convince urself that u r pious and in control whatever whever... but that doesn't mean u can go for pronography or nude parties and clubs and say i'm in control.
try to establish new hobbies, read about how ppl manage to be successful under harsh circumstances.
donno of what origin u r, but u can see what ur papa was doing in such case. if u felt u r still not able to handle it, visit a shrink -trusted one-.
God bless ya!
2006-10-19 23:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by rularashid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have yet to realise that it's a sad existence, and that true contentment comes from settling down with one person who you can trust. Some people try and do both of course, but they usually get caught.
2006-10-19 23:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Twisty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u meant people not men only!if i am to generalize it, people sleep arund wit diff people cuz of their perverted minds or some of them hav been molested as kids, so they derive pleasure punishing themselvs sleepin wit diff people2 feelin in control!. on the males side is lack of maturity and self control( p*$$* drives them craze!!)
2006-10-19 23:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by mean-BANKS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people feel proud that they had sex with many people and its part of experimenting their sex drive its fine but you have to prevent you may never know who is carrying the disease they are not written on their foreheads be careful
2006-10-19 22:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Eunice M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, its probably the evolutionary prcreative side of a mans personality - the more women i pork, the more chance of my seed and genes being passed on to future generations. the meaning of life is to procreate and therefore continue it!!
plus its fun hehe
2006-10-19 22:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Gravy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the aching feeling in ur di*k maybe?+y not?its all good fun.i say we should all sh*g more
2006-10-20 01:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr Gravy is on the ball this time.....
2006-10-20 00:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋