My partner of 3yrs has a problem if i go out with friends...even tho i have few!!
If i did it would only be once a fortnight, when we had the money!!
He still says no.. even tho he goes out every thursday nite
2006-10-19 22:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are an individual as is he and there are no different rules for you and him,,,he goes out with no problems,,you should go out with no problems,,dont let this spiral out of control,,stand your ground,,,,im not talking arguing,,i just mean saying,,'im going out,be back later,,wish me a good time' if you allow others to dictate who,what ,where,and how,,they will do just that,,treat it as if you have just met,,would you allow him to tell you what you could and could not do? no,never,,you dont earn the right to be a dominator,,it is a flaw,it is emotionally wrong for another to withold permission for another to do something.stand your ground now because it will only get worse.
2006-10-19 22:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to sit down and tell him you would also like to have the same privileges that he does going out with his friends. If he doesn't want to play fair tell him then he can't go out anymore either. Or better more go out on the same night he does if possible and then try to be home around the same time.
2006-10-19 22:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just reassure him he has nothing to worry about.And if still says no then just ask him why he's so worried and then start saying you don't want him to go out and see what he says.
He's not being very fair!!!
if he still says no then just go out on the night he goes out but with your friends.He hasn't got the right to tell you what to do
2006-10-19 22:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put your foot down luv! tell him that you are going out to see your friends because he goes out every thursday so you have the right to, or just go out with him!!
2006-10-19 22:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to control you . and that's a big NO.
Go out
2006-10-19 22:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by IQ lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's jealous and a little over protective. Afraid someone might steal you away from him..
2006-10-19 22:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know wat i say to that **** him because if he goes out all the time there is no problem with u going out , he is just contraducting himself saying that u cant go out , i say u got out and just tell like it or not if u dont there is the door and i bet u he wont walk gud luk anyway
2006-10-19 22:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you, He thinks you will to if you go out without him.
2006-10-19 22:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him
2006-10-19 22:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by ntu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are going out. he is trying to control you.
2006-10-19 22:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋