After thinking for a long period, I have reached a conclusion that love lasts longer in live-in relationship than in marriage. Also, live-in relationship provides that space for both the parties which they would never be enjoying in marriage. Finally, the live-in relationship is successful only when both parties have independent thinking and independent social life. And no one sacrifice anything for anyone in this relationship - in cpmparision with so many sacrifices that marriage demands.
Walking-out of live-in relationship is much easier than that in marriage and a person can walkout the moment the love does not last.
The question is just to get some more views about merits and demerits of live-in realtionship from our wise members. Please give me your opinion friends.
2006-10-19 21:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by BT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know where you are coming from. My husband and i Just recently got married (Aug 28, 06). we have been together for 3 years now and have literally lived together the whole time. we have a 1 year old son and another one due in December (neither of them planned, just happened). We both did not really believe in the concept of marriage. marriage is a church/christian based belief. the only reason that we ended up getting married was b/c our society has rules on insurance stuff (and being pregnant i need insurance). which is totally bogas if you ask me. you should be allowed to add anyone to your insurance, if your paying for them, that you want to. back to your question though...its wise of you to think the way you do.
2006-10-19 22:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMmm well I had a boyfriend i lived with for 4 yrs and when i left i just packed my stuff up and walked out the door. Ive been married for almost 3 yrs now and i couldnt just pack up and leave i had to hear my husband and still do hear my husband cause the divorce aint final yet, ***** about money, car payments ,loan payments, the children, what im doing, where im going and all kinds of stupid crap. That piece of paper changes everything, I cant go back to school because we make too much money and i cant afford to pay for it, but if i was single i could get all kinds of grants because i have kids. Just because you walk out of a marriage or live in relationship doesnt mean you dont love someone, cause i still love my husband but i cant live with him and now i have all this baggage with him, I am a believer in live in relationships. I will never get married again.
2006-10-19 22:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just "walk out" on love it wasn't now was it? Marriage does not mean eternal sacrifices of a high price, you can still have your independance and freedom if the other side gives that. Maybe it was not the method of the relationship that gave you troubles, but your thinking. Or that of your wife.
2006-10-19 21:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a state of mind. Nothing physically changes when you get married, there is no reason to stop being independent. Any relationship takes compromises, even a live in relationship wouldn't last without them.
2006-10-19 21:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by virgen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na munna na...india main the bloody society won b convinced..
although even i would prefer a live in..but honeslty speaking..its not bout da relationship-marriage,boyfriend or live in....its only about ur love...go get ur horroscope(kundli) checkd by some pandit wandit..sachi..it helps man..tc...
2006-10-22 07:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you expect an accommodation
like that in a sharing auto or in a taxi or other conveyance
to facilitate you for a floor cross if need be?
Be in static moods with dynamic[not dynamite pl] thoughts
2006-10-19 23:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In India, rare chance.
2006-10-19 21:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too beleive in what you do but practically it's not accepted in the society
2006-10-19 21:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you haven't convienced me.. i still wana get married..
2006-10-19 21:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by uniqu3ang3l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋