My So called best friend of ten years tried to take my boyfriend off me & then when i confronted her, she said that it was all my fault, that i deserved it & she wouldn't do it if she hadn't have thought that i didn't deserve him. What should i do?
2006-10-19 21:45:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girl that is not a friend you don't need her if shes going to do that.A true friend likes you for who you are and would never do something like that.My advice is to is go get a better friend because the one you have is not a friend.
2006-10-19 21:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by ashleyhlldy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not keen on this 'friend'. Stay well away from her. The only way to tell a true friend is when things aren't great for you they dont disappear and let you down. You'd be better off on your own than having a friend like this one - the boyfriend sounds as bad as her so they deserve each other! You've had a lucky escape!
2006-10-20 05:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends would never get into this situation in the first place but True friends also learn from their mistakes and forgive one another
Was this the first time if not move on
Was it all the friends fault or did the boyfriend willingly participate
Jealousy and envy will always test a friendship
2006-10-20 04:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by trvrrhds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. B4 I read the question I thought I would say the longer you've been friends but you've been friends for 10 years and she betrayed you. She's not worth taking back. So what if you deserve it, does it mean she'll try and hurt you everytime she thinks you deserve being hurt? That's not a friend that's not the way she's supposed to think. If you cannot rely on your friend even if you were in the wrong then who can you rely on? Dump her.
2006-10-20 05:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer:
If you ever have to ask the question "How can you tell if someone is a true friend" then you know that they, in fact, are not.
I am sorry. Perhaps she was able to be for the majority of those 10 years, but she is not now.
And, you know this.
One other thing, You deserve the very best that life has to offer.
Peace!
ThirstQuencher
2006-10-20 04:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by thirstquencher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people get emotional just like married couples have arguments even though they love each other more than anything else
humans can never be perfect and you have to understand that a true friend (not what all these other answers are saying) can make a mistake and do something they didn't mean
try to make it up and say you werent thinking straight at the time and that you were blinded by love
i mean whose more important, your boy friend or your best friend?
If she still doesn't listen, then its her fault not yours because you were the one trying to keep close to her and that you're a friendly person and she isn't
2006-10-20 04:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Hippy of 21st Century - Jargouss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all the ten years that you were friends, did she ever admit that she was wrong? True friends are real people that put you first and genuine in that they feel sorry when they do something that hurts you and they try to make amends. Both your friend and your boyfriend have failed the test.
I only have two real friends, most people have at least one.
Keep looking.
2006-10-20 05:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by yourdayscoming 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten good years of friendship is not a joke.She was able to hide her true colour inside that skin of hers.Thank God she tried but she hasn't suceeded.she is not your true friend but someone destiny made you to come accross.
A true friend will always be interested in your progress,she will be there for you. Even if you have any lapses bcos we are not perfect, she will know how to discuss it with you.
Note: This relationship is between you and your boyfriend.mind what you discuss with your friends about your boyfriend so that you will not make another mistake of giving him out to someone else.The little they know about him the better for your relationship.
I wish you goodluck.
2006-10-20 06:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by oluwafeyisayofunmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would not betray you and then try to blame it on you. It sounds like she's got serious emotional issues and you're well rid of her. You deserve better friends and a better boyfriend than those two. Find friends who will respect you and who you can rely on.
2006-10-20 05:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is someone that is there for you know matter what. They are also someone who would ~never~ do anything to intentionally hurt you or cause you pain. If they thought you were deserving of less then they would come to you and talk to you, not try and steal it away.
2006-10-20 05:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kim B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋