secrets to leading a happy life not life to just satisfy our pleasures even after entangling ourself with the real world and its responsibilities.
2006-10-19 21:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by avi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
been asking that for the last 2 years , because theres a point when making more money, and owning more possessions becomes a utility of diminishing returns
2006-10-19 21:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by ram456456 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPINESS IS NOW. We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married and have kids.Then we become frustrated that kids are not old enough and we will be more content when they are.After we are worried as to how to deal with teenagers.We tell ourselves we will be happy when they are out of that stage.Then we feel that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together,when we get a nicer car,have vacation,when we retire.The truth is there no better time to be happy than NOW. If not now when?Life is always full of challanges.Its best to admit that and decide to be happy anyway.Alfred D'Souza says"for a long time I felt that life was about to begin-real life.But there was always some obstacle to be overcome.Something to be done first,some unfinished business,time still to be served or a debt to be paid.At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my "life".This perspective helped me to see that there is no road to happiness,"happiness is the road".So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared with someone special,special enough to spend your time....and remember that time waits for none.So stop waiting til you grow up,marry,have kids,they growup,takeup jobs,until friday night,until next year,until a new car or a home,until you repay your loans, until summer,until you have a drink,until you have sobered up,until your song comes on, until you are famous,until you die,until you are born again,to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey not a destination.
2006-10-20 04:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by g.d. r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the music, eat live foods, pray to Jesus, rise above the "real world".
2006-10-20 04:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best answer I would say is to make sure you surrond your self with as much friends and love one as possible people you can really be your true self with.And I guess being true to your self as much as possible.
2006-10-20 04:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is one idea, try reading...
the spiritual end is something else... but taking care of the $ end is a great help...
2006-10-20 05:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋