Why is it easier to attain what you don't even want than what you really want ?

Question

For example a poor young fit teenage couple will have "fun" sex and she will end up pregnant easily. Then,she will chose or be presured into having an abortion.Due to say her financial problems. Where as an older couple will want to have a child.But, will be unable to. Despite having attained wealth.So that the child will not be poor or hungry. Or someoen gets a birthday gift they don't think is special. Then,their friend or sibling says; I wish I had gotton that. You're so lucky. Give an example from your life or someone elses. If you believe that this is the way it works. Someone told me; "You want what you can't have." Maybe, but since this is a universal circumstance. What law or laws are behind this phenomenon ? . It's not random enough. Everyone wants something someone else already got easily. Can we rule out Karma ? Yes,I think so. It has nothing to do with your actions. Ever notice how the Lotto Jackpot winners aren't people who play consistently for decades.

Answer 1

Look at it mathematicly. There is a finite umber of things you want. For this lets call it 100. There is also an infante number of things you dont want, but lets call it 1,000,000.

probability of something you want turing up is 100/1,000,000 which is 0.001 or 0.1%.

Simple really.

Answer 2

it's a complicated dilemma... What we want is not what we always get! you can't rule out karma, everything is connected. that's why rich people win jackpots...rich people are not happy, they go crazy fast....it doesn't really matter, you can buy everything but you can't buy time, we are all equal...