2006-10-19 18:50:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
immature boundary function
lack of identity
lack of self esteem
courage comes from decision making and confidence comes from success AND failure of those decisions
be courageous and make decisions and then be confident that you can make good deciisons or accept and overcome any mistakes that are made
JUST DO IT!!!!!!!
failures are worth more than successes
2006-10-19 18:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by willcurrent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence will come with age. If u r young, it was a struggle with your parents, and nothing was right on your part--yet u may be the one right-needing to ignore. It is hard to say not knowing the situation.
Ask a doctor and see if they can help u, I am sure they can!
It may not be underconfident at all, just an anxiety problem or depression....go to a doctor--u will be amazed at the difference in about 1 week---takes a little while for the med's to get in your system.
2006-10-20 02:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by guardianofdoves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test anxiety is a state of heightened anxiousness that arises in a testing situation which triggers the autonomic nervous system which triggers physiological changes that make one much better prepared to fight an attacking bear and much less prepared to remember facts or do complex thinking. The digestive system almost completely shuts down, causing a very queazy stomach and sometimes nausea. The distant-senses -- vision and hearing -- become hypersensitive, causing a person to be distracted by every little sound and movement. The brain readies the body for take off or battle, causing jitteriness and "ants-in-the-pants" feelings and the last thing a person is prepared to do is take a test. When this happens, it results in a very poor testing performance which increases the likelihood of test anxiety problems on subsequent tests.
2006-10-20 02:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by veerabhadrasarma m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of self confidence. "How do you fix that" you ask?
There are several things you can do. First of all you can start working out at the gym. Get a personal trainer and meet your fitness goals. Once you look good you feel good.
Go back to school. Higher education is amazing for making you feel smart and on top of the the world again.
2006-10-20 02:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any circumstances of life can do these things. One gets nervous when they worries a lots about a problem or afraid to tackle the situation without any possiblities of help. A person is not confident when things seems hopeless.
2006-10-20 02:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An insecure person and confused person are the one who is unconfident and nervous.See for yourself when u go nervous! ur actually clouded with doubts and uncertain about certain things.If know all the answers to your problem and know how to solve then u turn to be confident.
2006-10-20 02:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by nirupam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nature & nuture & enviroment & personal choice & brain chemistry etc.
Low self esteem. Highly critical environment.
Life circumstances. For instance a death of a child, betrayal by a loved one,
2006-10-20 02:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect it has more to do with there own idea of perfection than any one else's.
2006-10-20 01:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discouragement, bullying, or too much problems
2006-10-20 01:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by wheezy baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋