i need to add a few more details.. but anyway...... this guy asked me to a dance and he is really nice. but my best friend says go out with him but like an hour later she says dont and she tells me its because Alex (his name) has been being mean to her. but i never saw him being mean to her. maybe i did once but im known as quiet and shy over there at school, college not telling. my friend says im being to dramatic..... my friend tells me its just a yes or no question pick one! i dont know which one!!! now she tells me its my choice but i kinda like this guy too so i should say yes?? other girls like him too and they know he asked me sooo ummm help?
2006-10-19 17:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by Shannon 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Your friend is bonkers. Don't listen to her. Don't what you want. If you like the kid back, then go out with him. Also, if you're shy and he knows it, then stay shy. He'll ask if he likes you. Guys also grab the shy girl if they think it'll make the bad part of the night easier. Keep this in mind. Good luck.
2006-10-19 17:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by chemicalburn2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a nice, good guy, just go to the dance. Besides you don't know your best friend's motives, especially an hour later she comes back to tell you not to go out with him. Your best friend might have been mean to Alex first. You were not there. There is two sides to every story.
2006-10-20 00:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't be nice to EVERYBODY since some of them seem to have confilicting interestes. Stop listening to your friend. She is pushing you around. When people say "it's your choice" like that they really mean they want you to do what THEY want. They already made a choice for you and want you to obey.
It's nice to be supportive of friends if they are nice, but sounds like she's not being nice to you, she's being controlling of you.
Tell her it's none of her business who do you go to dance with. C'mon, it's not like she's super concerned about YOUR safety. She is concerned about her ego. Promise her you won't ask HER BF out, say this is all you can promise.
2006-10-20 00:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's nothing rong with giving something a shot if you like hi the why not give him a go if you don't feel safe , confer table ,happy etc then leave him no one ca tell you what to do if you say yes no one can stop you if you say no no one ca n force its up to you honey so good luck.
2006-10-21 05:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go pick out a tight red dress put on a three inch designer heel and dance the night off
2006-10-20 04:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Amber C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin
2006-10-20 00:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you wouldn't say yes. The only reason not to is on HER say-so, and you question her motives, so ... yeah!
2006-10-20 00:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your own heart, instincts, and conscience- not everyone else's.
2006-10-20 00:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with chris instead
2006-10-20 00:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋