MY best friend JOHN FRASIER of Coleman Junior High in Van Buren, Arkansas just told ME he was gay. He is only 14, he can't be gay. What should i do after i out him to the whole school?
2006-10-19 16:22:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh batsh*t,kid,are you potty-trained yet?What a lame joke.
2006-10-19 16:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Lee J 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You DO need help. You have no right to out someone to the whole f u c k i n g world!! You are no friend to this poor kid. Best friends don't do that kind of thing. What ever the outcome is is on your hands. I hope you can live with that. He can be gay, even at the young age of 14. And you're never to young to be a complete moron. You have a lot of growing up to do. Your parents must be so proud.
One more thing Alan,
I'm sending a copy of this post to your school principal, assistant principal, counselor. You can explain to them why your harrassing your "best friend". I invite others to contact your school, I've included e-mail adresses below.
Becky Guthrie - Principal Becky.Guthrie@vbsd.us
Jenks Smith - Asst. Principal jsmith@vbsd.us
Leanna Garrett - Office/Counseling lgarrett@vbsd.us
Enjoy you time in the principal's office Alan!
Thought you might like a copy of the e-mail I sent to your school, here ya go!
My name is ***** ********. I live in **********. I found something disturbing on the internet this morning. I copied and pasted the link to a very disturbing post by one of your students regarding the "outing" of his so called best friend at your school. The person posting is only identified as Alan M. Alan M is threateninig to "out" his best friend John Frasier. I don't know if Alan's post on Yahoo Answers is a joke or not, but he also claims to have put a post on his "MySpace". If there is any truth to what Alan M has posted, this could cause a lot of damage to the other student. Being an "out" lesbian, I know the pain that such a thing can cause. Alan M and John Frasier both need counseling to get through this.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061019202217AAkcyhv&r=w#F8MsW2TpBTAfBvDTWG5yKF7JEEQLEjvz_I1sH6nvwb4mx3c5lAzc
Thank you for listening,
2006-10-20 06:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a little turd parasitic thing to do to your best friend!!!! Why would you even think of posting some hateful thing like that?? That is horrible. How would you like to go through the negativity of hatred and the beatings just because you have different feelings and beliefs. Maybe you should not come back here until you grow up and are more considerate of others. Outing someone can have a devestating fatal outcome, do you really want to do that to your so-called friend?? Until then live your life as a waste of a jit. LOL
2006-10-22 11:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can be sued for talking like that
it takes a lot for some body to admit they are gay
john would have thought of you as a good friend to tell you in the first place and now you betray him
if you tell anyone you will be breaking you friend soul
weather you dislike homosexuality or not have some respect for you friend
he is a better man then you and a bigger on to
think about it would you have the guts to tell some one if you were gay
i think not be a man an stand up for john as
he is going places and could take you there later
if you out him now when he is setesful he may crush you
2006-10-20 03:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Zara3 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not much of a best friend since you have just "outed" him to the world. I would suggest being supportive of his decision and allow him to do it in his own way. If you cannot handle that, tell him that the information is too much for you and you need some time to sort it out, and leave him alone. Causing others to turn their backs on him as it appears you are about to do (if you have not already) is not fair to him, nor does it make you a very good friend.
2006-10-19 23:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by nontatertot 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you were really his best friend, why would you out him to the whole school? He trusted you with this information, and you told everyone. Yes, sorry to tell you but people actually can be gay, even at fourteen. I know fourteen year olds that are gay/bisexual...it's not that uncommon.
2006-10-21 13:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by me. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just told you something that it took a lot of guts to tell you. Imagine if you were gay, and you told your best friend, and he did something as horrible as telling a bunch of people who would be mean to him about it? He needs you to be there for him. You don't even have to say anything to him about it, just don't ruin his life and make things harder for him than they already are. Your friend is going to go through a lot of hard times with being gay. Why would you want to make it worse for him? Before you do anything, please just take some time to imagine what you would be feeing if you were in his place.
2006-10-19 23:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by jenjubatus 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
"he can't be gay" - if you truly believed this then why would you out him? you don't even think he is gay.
however, the majority of the time being gay is the way you are born, so you are gay from day 1. there is no certain age where all of a sudden the gay gene kicks in.
2006-10-20 06:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you say hes your best friend, when your he's worst enemy, your a dirty mongrel prick, what do you mean out him to the whole school, you just outed him to the whole world which you obviously meant to do, and when you out him to the whole school, the whole school will know your just a lowlife untrustworthy mongrel prick, and I hope you get your just deserts, and the whole school hates you and the teachers makes sure you fail your exams, and you have to tell your parents why you failed, and they tell you they hate you as well, and then you have to commit suicide, GOODBYE
2006-10-20 00:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He trusted you with something that is important to him , it couldn't have been easy for him to tell you he is gay . Why would you want to betray his trust and out him to the whole school ? If someone trust you with something that is important to them it means that you are important in their life and they have high regard for you , so why would you treat him and his feelings like they didn't matter to you especially since he is your best friend . Dude you are seriously messed up !
2006-10-19 23:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean he can't be gay???? why because he's only 14??? i believe that you are born gay, i believe it's in your genes. he told you this because he trusted you being his best friend and all. it's not for you to tell anybody else. if he wants to come out then he should do it on his own turfs. so just be his friend and except him for who he is
2006-10-19 23:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by bluefishamerica 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋