I'm scared to go to college...I know why college right? I should be scared of high school, but I'm not. Everyone thinks high school is their worst fear ever (at least..my friends too), but its no problem with me...its COLLEGE!
I'm scared to be around a lot of people and I never ever been indepent or on my own before. I'm scared to go out and have fun...I mean, I want to have fun, but I'm not that comfortably around people...only people I feel 100% comfortable around and I know sooner or later...Ima have to hang with people I dont feel comfrtoable around.
And the real reason why I'm scared is because I think thats when I want to start dating and I'm really scared to have a boyfriend? I dont know how to start it off and another reason why is because I'm afraid I'm going to fail college and not keep up with other students.....
Another reason why is because going out to have fun. What if I end up a loser at school? HELP!
2006-10-19 16:05:58 · 6 answers · asked by classy_lady 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
Its a little nerve wracking at first sure... but just keep in mind that everyone is in the same situation as you are. Everyone is out on their own for the first time. And for the dating issue, don't rush it! If you aren't comfortable in a relationship then don't bother with one. No one will think any differently of you if you choose to stay single, after all it is *your* choice. So good luck, don't worry, you'll find your niche :)
2006-10-19 16:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think you are school result oriented. Maybe your parent told you that you have a great mark in the school and college. We need to having fun actually to refresh our brain. If too much study and you put too much effort also will not giving a great result since in some condition you will be afraid to fail or not pass the exam.
Just relax. no need so afraid. Enjoy your day. Just trying to feel comfortable with ppl around you.
Maybe you need friend which you can share your doubt and others...
Cheers!!
MS
2006-10-19 16:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Monalisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
college is a blast, I suggest taking the required classes first though. Take classes you'll like second.You'll be fine, people will eventually talk w/ you i was the same way my college we usually always do getting to know you thing at the beginning of the semesters so you get to know your felllow classmates. you'll be fine i was the same way. Just keeping getting good grades and work hard :)
2006-10-19 16:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by mynameischeese2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to fear but fear itself.
As a Junior in college, I can tell you that it is a little intimidating at first. But you learn how to develop a routine. Once it is established, you follow that routine until the end of the semester.
It isn't as overbearing as it sounds.
2006-10-19 16:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Oklahoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often end up asking the same question on other sites
2016-08-23 09:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was wondering this too
2016-08-08 17:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋