Im ugly and fat, but i like this boy in my class. but he like this ohter girl she is preety and skinny. sometimes i cry at night because i think im never going to get married or have a boyfriend. I think that i am ugly and fat and im never going to be happy.
2006-10-19 15:31:44 · 10 answers · asked by sassiearies21 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
you must know that looks is not everything. and i bet you're not ugly and fat. boys are shallow and don't see beyond their *****. just you be patient and see, you will have the last word on the boy friend thing. you could ask him out for lunch one sat. and feel him out. if there are no sparks, what have you lose. good luck
2006-10-19 15:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try these things:
-Try to become friends with the guy you like
-Try and loose weight by joining a gym, taking a walk, or watching exercise videos
-Eat healthy I reccomend a veggie diet/vegan diet
-Drink at least 8 glasses of water a day
-Join a club at school/get involved in school activites to make friends
-See a school counsler because it seems like you have some self-esteem issues
Good Luck, I hope this helps :)
2006-10-20 19:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it. I bet there is a guy who think the same way about himself. You just haven't met each other. Time will come, just wait a little bit. A be yourself. Do not try anything else to loose your wait except exercising may be. I mean anything that make harm your health. And as I said be yourself and "He" WILL find you among the millions.
Good luck,
SVetlana
2006-10-20 00:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Svetlana G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in many activites. Most guys seem to like girls of action.I don't mean necessary physical action, as in sports, but just girls who are busy. also be friendly to everyone, not just the boy you like. You will have a reputation of being approachable, and since most guys are shy around members of the opposite sex, your friendliness will help put them at ease.
Also, do your best to take care of your physical body. If you can, consult a doctor or nutrionist. Please don't do it though, just to get a guy. Do it for your physical and emotional well being.
2006-10-19 22:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Puff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take part in after school activities, sports, etc... ull get more friends and meet nicer people interested in the same stuff as u!
wait for some1 who doesnt care so much abt looks ull b happier
2006-10-19 22:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen... don't every think like that! in high middle school i was short and ugly and fat... when i got to high school i FILLED out got taller and allot prettier... your time will come.. just start playing sports be active...your time will come! and if that stupid boy does not like you for you... YOU DON'T NEED HIM! good luck sweetie!
2006-10-19 22:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by randaroo87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people think there ugly and fat..just do ur hair nice and you make up..and FLIRT!!..youll do great...good luckk
[ps. where eyeliner it makes everones eyes look good]
2006-10-19 22:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is important. You might want to work on getting some.
2006-10-19 22:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Become a s-l-u-t. You'll get a boyfriend, although, it may not last. Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved. At least that is what they say.
2006-10-19 22:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try not to worry about it. Can you lose some weight?
2006-10-19 22:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋