I dated her for like 2 months in 2005 and she goes around to anyone that we both know, which is a lot of people speaking ill of me and has actually convinced like half of them that I'm some kind of evil psychopath... She tells so many lies about the most ridiculous things and even convinced some cop friend of hers to start harassing me.. I don't commit crimes so there's nothing he can charge me with, but the two of them went to my employer and convinced them that I was using the company computer to post my blogs on the internet... that's not even true but they fired me and I appealed it and it took like 3 weeks for the company to figure out the truth, so now my work relationships are pretty much ruined too... What can I do to get this monkey off my back?
2006-10-19 15:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Jason 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I should add that it's been over a year since I've even spoken to her and she still brings my name up constantly anytime she's talking to someone that I know... Nobody will tell me exactly what it is that she says, but they all start distancing them from me afterwards.
2006-10-19 15:23:45 · update #1
sorry for your luck...talk to a different cop and have her charged with something or have her killed or start spreading the news that you left her because she was a man...
2006-10-19 15:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a dose of her own medicine. YOU go around saying the craziest things about her. Show her you're not a wimp. DON'T get angry or lose your cool coz that's her intention and satisfaction. And if you get violent on her, well....you can imagine the extent she will go on her lies.
Now this is the name of the game: PLAY IT COOL. This will infuriate her. The same people who she spoke bad about you, you have to convince them you're sane and show how charming you are, to the point where they would start trusting you and they would finally say what she told them. then you LAUGH, and imply she's crazy. Pretty soon everyone will know.
Good guys always laugh last. You're not a coward and she can't go on treating you like that.
2006-10-19 22:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are the victim here. I would just go tell the police department your side of the story. and tell them that if you did something to offend her, you would like to confront her and apologized what ever offended her. Ask the lord to forgive her for what she is doing to you and ask for his help in solving this problem. Prayer will go a long way. God Bless you. Hope you find the piece you are looking for.
2006-10-19 22:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's some crazy bit*h,i think you should get a lawyer and tell him whats going on because for a police officer lying about your job is considering a crime you lost your job for some crazy girl,i know its hard but try to move on with somebody else and forget about everybody to0o because if they want to believe her then let them they dumb anyways lol,talk to her mother or somebody in the family and let them know that if she keeps acting like that ,that you going to take her to court just to get her scared ,because there no reason for her to be acting like that just for a brake up!hope this helps
2006-10-19 22:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by `~*sheila *~` 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some people that get a thrill out of doing this. It is best that you limit information that can get back to her and avoid people that believe what she is saying. Don't tell others your business so that it won't get back to her. Caustic!
2006-10-19 22:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by luvngran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think enough is enough! Time to follow up with a "Defamation of Character" suit to show her you are not going to let her get away with the harrassment any more!
2006-10-19 23:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~ L ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and sue her for defamation of character.
2006-10-19 22:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatdid you do to her to make you flip out like that?review the realationship, if you did anything to hurt her apologize. Maybe all she wants is for you to say im sorry
2006-10-19 22:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋