We had sex during her period.. (withdrawal method) and several days after we had a fight.. huge fight.. just two weeks after.. she told me she would have her kidneys chekd( she had kidney problems) she had urinalisis then the result was all about the kidney.. no pregnancy involved.. that was wednesday.. thursday she had ultra sound still for kindeys.. didnt know what really ws the result but she said she was pregnant.. how come when according to the result of the urine she was not and we did it during safe days.. i dont understand.. i find it strange..
is she telling me this because she really is? or just because she doenst want to lose me cuz of our fight? im confused.. were taking a pt later.. i just dont understand..
2006-10-19 15:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There are no safe days to have sex... you can still get pregnant even if you are on your period. Also, the withdrawal method has a high percentage of failing, one drop of semen contains a lot of sperm... make sure she takes the test. Next time use a condom.
2006-10-19 15:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Denise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pregnancy tests are not going to pick up a pregnancy until a few weeks after conception. Having sex during her period does not guarrantee infertility. Many women have gotten pregnant by having sex during their period. The withdrawal method will not work if there are any sperm in the early fluids (and there are).
Whether she is lying to you is another story. So far there are no indications that she is not.
2006-10-19 15:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like it's coz of the fight to me, which would be a REALLY horrible thing for her to do to you if that's the case, I don't know the whole story so it's hard but If I were you I would make her take the test, with you there,
or if going to the doctor insist that you come that way you will know the truth about what is going on, and if she is being honest and is pregnant... then you are supporting her at the same time by being there.
Talk to her and let her know how you feel, but don't come across as acusing her of lying, be calm and caring!
2006-10-19 15:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by 0bnsgrl0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no safe day to have sex. Girls can get pregnant any time, day, month, and place. Also you are a fool to believe the pull out method works. You still secreet preejaculate during sex. So yes, she could be pregnant. If yall are that uninformed about sex then you shouldn't be having it and you should definatly not have a kid.
2006-10-19 15:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by dawggurl47 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT could be possible that there was not enough hormones in her urine it takes longer to show up in a urine. You should have her take a blood test. Also I conceved my son on my period. No such thing as a safe time.
2006-10-19 15:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by coliepollie22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since all you did was ask questions, I don't understand how anyone could judge you as "not a nice person", Oh well,.There is no safe time. If you don't want children yet, put a helmet on that soldier.
2006-10-19 15:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters there are no safe days and for the pee tets it could be to early as for ultra sound its more technical than a pee test. if she is then wait 2 weeks take a pt and see what it says.
2006-10-19 19:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so you had unprotected sex and you want to know why she is pregnant? the answer is because you had unprotected sex! it does not matter when you had sex, once again the point is that you had unprotected sex. you need to educate yourself about sex. go to the planned parenthood website, they have information about sex and the different methods that you can use to protect yourself.
2006-10-19 15:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by blu_drgn25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get pregnant while on your period. but you should both go for a test because it could be because of the fight.
2006-10-19 15:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by sexylove1_2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋