2006-10-19 14:44:12 · 21 answers · asked by babydevil200669 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Please! This is ridiculous! You cannot possibly want to have a baby with someone you've only been with for a week. Please don't try to get pregnant until you and your boyfriend have been together for much longer, maybe a couple of years.
I love babies too. Why don't you see if you can babysit for someone or get a job in a daycare where you can take care of other people's babies for 8 hours a day? You can get all your baby cuddles in and the best part is that you get to give the babies back at the end of the day.
2006-10-19 14:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, why on earth do you want to get pregnant by somebody youve just been with for a week???
dont tell the guy, itll freak him out.
babies are a huge responsibility.
why not wait to have a baby with somebody that you are head over heals in love with?
being pregnant is something you have to be 100% sure you want to follow through with. Its not something you can do for a few weeks, take a break and decide to continue with at a later date.
not to mention you have to know for a fact that you can be fiancialy ready and responible for another person
what will you do if you get pregnant and the guy leaves you???
do some heavy thinking before you even consider having a baby
2006-10-19 21:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥charlies angel♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him that he wants to get pregnant then you will get dumped right away. If you opps him, he will end up leaving you anyways and just pay child support (if you dont abort). If you want to get pregnant, then I would say to wait until you are married at least. You are not doing yourself a favor by rushing to get pregnant. At least put some deep thought into what it will actually take to give birth and raise a child for 18 plus years before giving up your freedom that you currently have.
2006-10-19 21:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you should tell him! You're talking about making a human being with him. I think he should know.
I must ask, what are you thinking girl? You want to have a baby with someone right now that you've only known a week and you are actually considering not talking to him about it. Guys have feelings about these things too you know. They aren't just sperm machines. Most of them aren't anyway.
If you want to get pregnant because you are lonely and need someone to love. Please don't. I have many babies in my life and as wonderful and beautiful as they are, babies don't give love and babies don't take away your loneliness. Find yourself some good friends and take your time starting a family. Babies need, need, need. And, once you have them it's not fair to not give them unwavering and unconditional love.
2006-10-19 21:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're ready to have a baby to me. You're better off popping down to the local sperm bank to get pregnant and raise the baby by yourself than to try to have a kid with a guy that you've been dating for a week.
However, the worst thing that you could do is to try to get pregnant without telling him.
2006-10-19 21:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jamir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are perfectly OK with raising this child on your own, run screaming from this baby fever! Like a regular fever, it will pass. Just try not to ruin a relationship in the process.
Clamp that mouth shut! Then go watch screaming children in the toystore to toughen yourself up a bit!
2006-10-19 21:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
know because u have not knew him long enough to know if he will stay or leave and the last thing u want to be is a single mother take it from me its harder than u think give your self time to find the one person that was ment to be yours a baby has the right to have both parents to raise him or her.
2006-10-19 21:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by crystal m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL. I hope this is a joke. How old are you? Aparently not old enough to make a decision like that. Keep legs closed. It's good advice.
2006-10-19 21:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and see if your realationship goes anywhere first. And I think its a little too soon. Do you think you could handle taking care of a baby on your won if he dumped you?
Its alot to think about...
2006-10-20 01:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Angel V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a week huh? wow..
I dated my wife for 4 years before we got married.. then we waited another 6 years before we had a kid.. and sometimes I still don't know if we were ready..
2006-10-19 21:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋