so weve been dating for like almost a year.. and im pregnant... i just found out today... so how do i tell him? i know hes not gonna leave me or whatever... im just scared... please help!
2006-10-19 14:41:10 · 15 answers · asked by knrose 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you know he's not going to leave you, then just be honest with him. I'm assuming you love this guy and now he's going to be the father of your child and now he's going to be in your life forever no matter what. Tell him the truth. I'm sure he loves you and if he's upset about it, he'll get over it. He has to. If he turns out to be a dead beat dad, then do what is necessary to get any help you can. Don't let this drag on any longer. Just be honest and tell him you are just as scared but that you have to be there for each other now and for the child.
2006-10-19 14:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rogodogo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit him down and say..Honey, we're pregnant. You just need to know how you expect him to respond. If you're young and not in a committed relationship, don't expect him to pop the question. If he does pop the question, be prepared to answer the question honestly. And lastly, if he's happy/excited and can't wait to share this experience with you, let him. You need to know what you expect from him before you speak to him, and prepare for the initial shock especially if this was unplanned and you used protection.
You don't say if you are excited or happy to be pregnant. You need to figure that out too. Being scared is normal, but honesty in any relationship is essential and it's important that you have all the support you can get through this time. I imagine he'll be shocked, speechless and then happy. All in that order. At least I hope for you that's what happens.
Good luck.
2006-10-19 21:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Allison S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes a good guy, he will react in a mature manner. Dont be scared. You just need to be unfront and honest about it. Why would he be mad. I mean c'mon he was in the sack too :) Dont be scared huni. Just get it over with, and im sure you too will work it all out. He might even be happy. You just never know. He might shock you :) GOODLUCK! Speak from your heart :)
2006-10-19 21:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you should watch tv together and when a commercial comes on with those cute little babies, say "ohhh,look at the cute little baby ours will be cuter(in your best baby voice), ." OR "pretty soon ours will be doing the same thing." if he gets upset-he's an a******. ah mean, you'll had sex w/o protection, he probably knows already just waiting on you to confirm it. and what are you scared of if you know he's not going to leave?
2006-10-19 21:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Simple as that. I have something important to talk to you about ___________. I am going to have a baby. And, yes it is yours.
Don't be surprised if he does something shocking. It is a shock you know. Don't do it over the phone and don't write him a letter. The big stuff should be done in person.
2006-10-19 21:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. It doesn't have to be a huge deal the way you do it. You could even call him, unless you truely want to see his reaction, otherwise, just sit down on the sofa and tell him. Remember, God chose you to have this gift. It matters. Don't be scared. Be grateful!
2006-10-19 21:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him straight out. He may be shocked, but if he knows what the right thing to do is, he'll be fine.
2006-10-19 21:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell him right away i dont understand tho if you know he is going to leave you because of this why did you stay with him, he sounds like an ***
2006-10-19 21:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rusty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 a public place and tell him
2006-10-19 21:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! Just tell him. Do you think he will be unhappy? Its better to just tell him so you don't need to worry about telling him. I hope he supports you.
Good luck.
2006-10-19 21:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋