Ok so theres this person who I used to be friends with, but she always badmouthed people and was soo negative so I'm not friends with her anymore. I wasn't mean or anything, just suggested that we eat lunch with different people (im in highschool). But she got super mad and now she is becoming friends with my new friends and telling EVERYBODY that I'm like a terrible person. She is a great actor and has even convinced some of my friends because everyone thinks she is sweet and innocent. I am not fake so I dont tell people that she is terrible and I dont act like something im not like she does, but people believe her. We used to share lockers so she knows my combo - and even gave this creepy kid my combo and told her to use it!! (I switched locks with one of my friends) She is literally ruining my life and I hate it - I feel soo depressed because she is stealing my friends and giving me a bad reputation. PLEASE - WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-10-19 14:35:23 · 4 answers · asked by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be patient, others will find out how she really is-DON"T WORRY! Just don't lower yourself to her level, stay nice and cool. You are better than her, you don't need to walk around and talk bad about other people. People who do that, are known just for that! In the end, you WILL come out ahead. What goes around does come back around. Your friends will soon find out. In the meantime, make new friends, or friend, or maybe try out a new club or something different-could be fun!
2006-10-19 18:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make your friends LISTEN to you. Call each and every one of them, and if you can call more than one at once that's even better. TELL THEM WHAT SHE'S DOING TO YOU. I once read an article about a girl in your very same position, and that is what she did and managed to get them all back on her side. Once you have secured those friends, talk to the girl. Tell her that you are good friends with her and everything, but you just wanted to get to know more people. And if she doesn't understand, leave her. Best of luck :)
2006-10-19 21:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends the truth. All of them. Tell teh old friend how you feel about how she is treating you and tell the new friends what you are all about without dogging her at all. You are doing the right things so far so keep up the good work!
2006-10-19 21:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, stay calm, if your Friends are true Friends they are not going to believe everything she says.It is better to stay alone that with bad company
2006-10-19 21:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋