2006-10-19 14:25:06 · 14 answers · asked by Lizzy W 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Pretty stupid. I can't imagine getting a girl pregnant when she was somewhere between 14-16 or even younger. You can't even get your own place, your own car, or even a real job at that age, let alone be able to support a baby. Plus, they are still to inmature at that age. I have rarely ever met a girl that was real mature at the time.
2006-10-19 14:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by PsyChoPath 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think they have a lot of life left so its a shame to not be able to live life to what it can be, but at the same time, the best mother i know had her first baby at 13 and second at 15, i dotn think age is important as maturity, there are some 30 year old people too selfish to have kids.
2006-10-19 21:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by jacks my boy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
**** happens and theres nothing you can do. just because young girls have kids doesnt mean that they cant be a good mother and it doesnt mean they are going to be on welfare and drop out of school. i dont think that people should think bad about them because it could have happened to them or anyone. keeping the child is better than having an abortion and killing a child. if a young girl believes she cant keep a kid then there are always tons of parents that want a child and would be willing to adopt it and most people that adopt dont mind the kids seeing their real mother and father.
p.s. most guys that think its stupid for a girl to have a kid at a young age but think they can still have sex are dumb because its not just a girls fault in gettin pregnant its the boys too and by the way most guys are the immature ones in parenthood but not all of them
2006-10-19 21:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥brownbabe1314♥ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl... there are girls who get pregnant have the baby, and let other people raise them while they go party ect. then there are girls who get pregnant, have the baby and take really good care of it....My mom had a child when she was 14, and she was way more responsible than many moms at 22..... I wouldn't judge a girl just because she got pregnant... It all depends on how she handled it......
2006-10-19 21:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for them, because the truth is that it can happen to any of us, no matter what age. Even grown ups do stupid stuff.
But I still expect them to step up and do what they need to do to be a good Mom. Having a kid makes you grow up fast and it's hard not to resent the intrusion on your life. But any smart woman can find ways to take care of herself and her baby.
I believe in the power of strong, positive women at every age. Be one.
2006-10-19 21:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont judge them. Things don't always go how we expect. Some young girls can be great moms... better than some older women... I don't think its "good" to have a baby young... but, things happen.
2006-10-19 21:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad. My opinion of the girl varies depending on the girl. Usually it makes me think the girl is wild and promiscuous.
2006-10-19 21:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jen F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its like this farmers do not breed their live stock while they are young. why do you think they do that??? could it be because they want nice healthy ofsprings in their herd??? now if you want scraney un healthy children start having them before your body is fully develpoed. hell everyone that has been to school should know this.
2006-10-19 21:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think they should have waited until they were financially and mentally stable enough to raise a baby.
2006-10-19 21:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are stupid (no offense) i dont get the ones who pretend like every thing is good and happy and they goin to marry the guy and everything is kool and they are happy it happened. i mean their life is ruined and they are like happy about it
2006-10-19 21:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋