My husband is 29 and I'm 23 my sex drive is way more than his.
Sometimes we don't have sex for 2-3 months. Is it that he's getting older and is it wrong for me to want it more..
2006-10-19 14:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by dolphin_heart19 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as guys get older they lose their sex drives, proven fact, for women it is the exact opposite. for your husband in particular, he is only 29 so that is a little bit young for this to be happening, if this is troubling you i would ask him about it and if he doesn't know what you mean or doesn't seem to realize that he is doing this ask him to consult his doctor about it because these kinds of problems can be indicators of something more serious such as cancers, prostate problems, or chemical imbalances.
2006-10-19 15:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by wolfpac85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong for you to want it more. You could want to have sex every day as long as you have the energy and that would be 'normal'. 2-3 months is a very long time to wait. I hate to say this but maybe he is having sex with someone else? Or maybe he has something very stressful or traumatic even going on in his life right now. Do you both communicate about your feelings? Talk to him and see if you can find out if there is something wrong, something bothering him. Let him know that his lack of interest in sex worries you.
Good luck!
2006-10-19 21:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong for you to want to have more sex with your husband.. What's wrong with him. I would hope that he isn't getting it from somewhere else... Do some investigating of your own if you think that he may. Ever try talking to him about it? We cannot be afraid to communicate with our mates. That's how a lot of marriages fail because we fail to keep the lines of communication open. You just don't wake up one day and decide that you aren't going to have sex, something had to have transpired for him to lose his drive assuming he had one in the past. Check into it.
2006-10-19 21:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is that it is not the age. i am 33 and my girl is 27 and i have more of a sex drive than her.,
2006-10-19 21:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by hector m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a medical issue. That is what im doing for my husband because he doesn't seem to want it anymore. Which pisses me off. life goes on eh?
2006-10-19 21:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey all i can tell you is that there is nothing wrong with you,but your husband on the other hand is. He is either not sexually attractive to you anymore or he is cheating on you. If he is not cheating on you he will.
2006-10-19 21:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by angelbeauty8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just nervous about it. and is scared he can't be what you want him to be. pushy women can turn a man off {even the wife} let him come to you. act a lil' hard to get.
2006-10-19 21:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE IS GETTING IT SOMEWHERE ELSE MAYBE YOU SHOULD INVESTIGATE DOESNT SOUND NORMAL TO ME IM 32 AND I CANT LIVE WITHOUT IT
2006-10-19 21:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** it take it more its not bad to want it more
2006-10-19 21:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would figuere that that would drive him crazy..that you are so much yunger.
2006-10-19 21:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋