I love my wife very much. I cleaned the house,cooked diner, got her flowers, the laundry,and did every thing she ask. I was very loveing to her. When i would give her the flowers she would say thats nice and she would just leave them sit there. It would hert my feeling so i stoped. When i got done cleaning the house. she would come in and thow her stuff all around, and when i would say hay i just got done, She would say it's called living, so i stoped. She wants a lot of animals, but she don't take care of the ones she has, I have to. I would ask her to rub my back. and she would say, the more you ask the more i don't want to. But she never did. She was getting mean all the time,I started to get depressed, she was pushing my love away.I started a hobbie i did spened alot of time, but i was feeling good about my self, Then I started projects on the house she wanted done. Remodeled the bathroom, porch,some windows, and some other things. I was tired, "To be continued" A lot more to say
2006-10-19 14:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by td_sn_lr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sit your wife down and tell her how you feel. Communication between couples is essential to a good, healthy relationship.
2006-10-19 14:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW!! My number is 555-555-5555...just kidding! but maybe you should just sit your wife down and have a talk with her, obviously something is bothering you a lot and action must be taken before it is to late. Express to your wife what you are feeling and just let her know everything, from the good to the bad things that are going on. Let her know exactly how you are feeling and if she can not except herself for the change she must become then you have to make a change in your life because it is the more healthier thing to do. Remember love is suppose to be trusting and happy, not sad and depressing, So just think about this and take action on YOUR future! Much Love, QT_Kendetta
2006-10-19 21:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by qt_kendetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? If not why? I f youhave no reaon why....then let me say something w/o offending you becasue i use to be that wife.....it was hard being the one that worked all the time an took care of the bills plus the kids even though he helped around the house an did the major. of the house cleaning it was still rough on me being the one working an making sure we had food an clothes on are backs. It made me stressed out that i always took it out on him an didn't feel like having sex or being around him. Now that he has a job an working things have gotton better an i feel like everything has been lifted off of my shoulders.
2006-10-19 22:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, it's too bad were only hearing one side of the story. (sorry) A person usually has a reason for acting the way they are, so....I think maybe it would be a good ideal to sit down and instead of guessing why she is doing and acting the way you say she is-why not take her out for dinner, and have a nice long talk? You were good enough to marry the lady, so I wouldn't think it would hurt to go a bit further and really find out what the under lying problem is. Females are a different kind of a creature, no tellin what we have on our minds next. But were well worth the effort! Good luck!!!
2006-10-19 21:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really do a lot for her...maybe too much. She obviously takes you for granted and doesn't show you the respect you deserve. Some women are funny in that the more you do for them, the quicker they get bored with you. I don't know of any woman who likes having a man do EVERYTHING they ask.
It's good you started a hobby. You need to do more for yourself.
Do what makes YOU happy.
2006-10-19 21:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by rockdeboat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it is like to have a wife that does not appreciate you. I did everything she asked. if she wanted ice cream in the middle of the night, I would go get it. anything even if i was sleeping. but she could never do anything for me. If i called her into the room for something. she would say no I am busy I am watching tv. I only asked her twice. and she said no both times. things will never change. good luck
2006-10-19 21:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is a ***** and you should give her a taste of her own medicine leave on a small trip tell her 1 day before you go and do something and have fun do not call her and see how far she gets without you she is spoiled and you did it now you have to un do it sureilll
2006-10-19 21:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you and I bet she has a guy on the side... pack up and GO!!!!!
She want she takes for granted when you are not there...
Oh and make sure she gets the extra animals first before you leave....
Or drop them at the pound before you go!
2006-10-19 21:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Angelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice man who deserves a much better woman -someone who loves and respects you!
2006-10-19 21:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good start, it sounds that your wife is very unappreciative of your efforts. What happened to make her change, or was she always so degrading? You'll finish in your update?
2006-10-19 21:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋