2006-10-19 13:55:02 · 26 answers · asked by HonestOne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off, don't listen to Debbie Downer, you are never to old to be in school. There is nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself, no matter how old you are.
As to your question, no, nothing wrong with it, as long as you realize that men mature much later than women do and there is no way this guy is on your maturity level. But if he is interested, it could surely be lots of fun for a while, and a huge ego boost. Go for it, but proceed with caution. You have a lot more life experience than he does, especially being a woman.
Good luck in love!
2006-10-19 14:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are out of school safely before you act on this. Even if you aren't her student any longer, most schools frown on any sort of dating between students & teachers. This could not only cost you your education, but her job. No way she'd date you after that. It's also likely that this would ruin your reputation in the job environment. Stuff like this gets around more than you would believe. Also, make sure that you aren't just idolizing her since she's in a position of power & a relationship would be a taboo. People can become infatuated with that & not realize that it's not real. Do you talk to her beyond schoolwork & classes? If not, then it's nothing real. I think that you need to get your mind back on your studies. You'll find someone better in no time at all. College is jam packed with hot young female students. Go grab one of them instead.
2016-05-22 03:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with having a crush on a 19 year old. You are young also, so if you really like him, go and get him. Congratulations on attending college. College can be attended at any age, the point is to go. Go talk to him and discuss some of your studies, that is a start.
2006-10-19 13:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things. While it is just a little odd for a girl to go for a younger guy, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your actual age difference. Seven years is nothing when you consider that some happily married couples have as much as a twenty year age difference between them!
The only thing wrong with what you are doing is
that you are letting the little, insignificant things things get in your way.
If you truly have a crush on him, you should stop and ask yourself why you do. Then, and only then will you be truly at peace with yourself!
2006-10-19 14:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that there's anything wrong with the age thing. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 20. I know it's not that big of a difference but still, I've been criticized about it. What should matter is his maturity, how he respects you and whatever it is that you look for in a guy. Always remember that you come first and that you only live once......
2006-10-19 14:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by C.R.E.A.M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for being in college at the age of 26 and trying to better youself. Are you really trying to better yourself by dating a 19 year old? Finish school and find a job and then find someone who's a little more grown up.
2006-10-19 14:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no!!!!!! there is nothing wrong with dating or having a crush on a younger guy!! take it from experience my first boyfriend was 3years younger than me it was the best relationship in my life!! and im 18 now and im still very attracted to younger guys to me they just seem cuter and playful!! but it can be a handful and younger guys are turned on if a older girl likes him!!! MAKE THE MOVE !!!!!!
2006-10-19 13:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by prece88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! If I was 19 I would love an older girl as I do today
2006-10-19 13:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats awsome i bet he likes you too i am 19 and i would love for an older woman to make a move on me
2006-10-19 13:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by MAtt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope nothing at all. go for it
26- guy
19- girl= kinda wierd.
26-girl
19-guy= a lot wierd
2006-10-19 13:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by buddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋