my g/f now ex has told me she loves me but needs space?

Question

i have a hot succesful single mother of 1 whom i basicly have been there 3 out of his 5 years i got a meth habbit a year and a half ago and really since we have met havent showed her any responsibility i am a highschool drop out she is a college grad and thought i was allways out of her leauge total opposites when it comes to organization and responsibility anyways my meth use and by the way when we met she also used cocaine and meth and partied heavily being we were both out of a bad realationps my not straightening up and not getting a job has caused her going elsewhere to find companionship but has allways taken me back because she loves me now shes pregnant 3 months not mine and i kept lieing about drug use up until this weekend when she told me shes lost attraction and needs space but she loves me and wants to remain friends im starting treatment getting a good job and having a hard time figuring out my future if one with my lost love also the sperm doner is not in her life

Answer 1

You sound like a loser. For her sake and the sake of her children (not yours) she needs to not only tell you goodbye, she needs to give you the heavy heave ho boot.

Answer 2

It sounds like you need to work on yourself instead of this relationship. When she says she loves you, she means that she will always love you and care for you deeply but she is not in love with you anymore or she wouldnt be your Ex- girlfriend. You have let her down in the past and there is no reason for her to believe you wont do it again. Let her go so she can raise her family, you should focus on your treatment and your job. thats plenty on your plate right now!! Congratulations for starting to live clean and good luck. At this time, the relationship is over.

Answer 3

It's over.

Answer 4

no one cares

Answer 5

What is your question?

Answer 6

oook....... and???? your question is..........

Answer 7

Thanks. you've made my day.