Im dating a 32 year old woman and she is still a vergin, she wold like me to be the first but im worried that she may become pregnant. We are both very allergec to latex, what should I do?. Pull out?, that dosnt sound to manley to mel
2006-10-19 13:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by Dave N 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Of course not. Pulling out is how I ended up with two lovely angels and I am not kidding. She needs to get on birth control or you can use a contraceptive jelly.
2006-10-19 13:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out doesn't guarantee that you didn't leave a little something of yourself behind--and that's all it takes. If she's not on the pill, try the sponge, or a diaphragm. Any way you look at it, she's got to do the birth control. Have you talked to her about this? Is she seeing a different future than you are? Perhaps, you should get this stuff out of the way before you have sex. For all you know, she doesn't want kids either or, at least, not with you. I dated a guy 14 years older than I was when I ventured into this area. I went on the pill because there was no way I was going to tie myself to that guy forever through a kid! Maybe she feels the same way.
2006-10-19 13:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on now you are 52 years old. You should know the answer to this question. I'm not giving you permission to sleep with this woman without a condom. If you guys should do it, both of you need to be tested. She could be a born-again virgin.How about lamb skin condoms?
2006-10-19 15:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by yp_fanta_beaumont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
52 and 32 year old mature adults can look into birth control options ...it's not like you were 17 and trying to keep it from mom and dad ....see a doctor together and discuss the best option for the two of you.
2006-10-19 13:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She will need to be on some form of birth control. Or you two need to be on some form of birth control. Multiple forms of birth control are better than none. Does she go to the doctor yearly to get a pap smear? If she does, then she can explore her birth control (perscription) options with her doctor. Or...if she doesn't want any kids then she can always have essure (google it) or a tubal ligation (burning or tying of the falopian tubes).
2006-10-19 14:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i keep hearing,(She) should go on birth control. Why don't you have a vasectomy, it sure doesn't seem like you want to father a child, and if she really is a virgin maybe she wants to have your baby.,either way do the right thing, protect yourselves..
2006-10-22 12:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE HER GO ON THE BIRTH CONTROL, BUT PEOPLE DO USE THE RHYTHM METHOD, BUT I'M SURE YOU KNOW THERE IS A THING CALLED PRE-***...SO GOOD LUCK AND I DON'T BLAME YOU ONE BIT FOR NOT WANTED TO START A FAMILY AT 52..NOT THAT IS IS OLD, BUT WELL YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN....LOL...
2006-10-19 13:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U can go to the drug store and buy some spermicide or they have these spermicide strips that the woman places in her vagina before sex and it blocks all sperm from entering...very effective.
2006-10-19 13:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
MAKE SURE SHE IS ON BIRTH CONTROL!
My man pulls out every time and i'm on birth control, i'd rather him do that then get pregnant.
2006-10-19 14:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by chairkiss_silver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They sell latex free condoms. I'm not sure were you can get them.
2006-10-19 13:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋