I love my husband but I been burnt to many times by men im 27 years old I have four kids two by my husband we have been married four years, he is not a citizen we were boyfriend and girlfriend for a short time before I asked him to marry me because I felt he was a good person, ansd we had a lot in common so we married with two months. We get alone well but as friends I dont feel to much romance coming from his way not 95 percent of the time. His sister just moved into our house and my gut feeling is telling me that they are talking about me behind my back. I just have this uneasy feeling inside because we have time invested we laught together, we have good times together my entire family adores him, he loves my previous two children and they love him too but something inside tells me he is two faced. Something inside is telling me to pick up and leave but I havent worked four four years,and when we meet I was in college and living in a sheltor with my two children. what should I do?
2006-10-19 13:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by TOKISA NEED HELP PLEASE, THANKS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I smile and pretend like everything is fine I dont want to look stupid arguing with a man, i have been there done that with previous relationships and I dont want to get hurt again, but sometimes I explode and I feel as if Im holding a lot of anger inside which might come out as atomic bomb at any moment its making me so nausuos
2006-10-19 13:50:38 · update #1
I have caught him four years ago talking badly about me to a friend on the phone which i later found out was a girl he always liked from his hometown in giorgia but we live in PA ,and I forgave him he apologized, I feel so trapped now that we have two kids what if he is a con artist smilling and laughing with me just to get a green card???
2006-10-19 13:58:09 · update #2
stay and get a new attitude....your at the least slightly paranoid....but either way sister needs to move out
2006-10-19 13:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't marry someone because you "felt like they were a good person" you marry them because they give you something, make you feel someway, or completely understand you like no one else has. Maybe it's better off to be friends and to figure out how to move on and find real love for yourself.
2006-10-19 20:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to come out and ask him do you still love me because here lately I havent felt love from you I feel distant. If your not happy dont stay for the children because if your miserable so are they.
2006-10-19 20:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 27 years old with four kids ,lets face it your probably not much to look at.and he probably does not desire you. and really you should be grateful to have someone in your life
2006-10-19 21:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by sermsticky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and tell him the way you feel, watch his expressions, they'll tell you what you need to know
2006-10-19 20:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by dolphin_heart19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him
or
you need to talk to someone you trust prefably a friend you trust and would never break a promise
2006-10-19 20:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Liizzily21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋